Sex problems.

CSoALL · #1 10-09-2012, 10:20 PM

Hi everyone, I'm new here.

I am here because i have a very serious problem with my boyfriend now. I am someone.. i won't say low sex drive but mainly because i have been approached the wrong way and thus not turned on.

The problem now is my boyfriend has a strong sex drive and wants sex almost everyday. However, it is impossible for me to meet up with him everyday. He can masturbate but in order to do so, he has to dirty talk to someone. Porn doesnt work for him any more as he is immune to it.

When he needs to release, he tried once or twice to approach me. As he is a very virtual person, we do it through social network like whatsapp. However, as i had a long day at work, i eventually fell asleep talking to him. He felt disappointed as most of the time he would not have completed his job.

Eventually, he decided not to approach me anymore since i couldnt help him. Now, i happen to find out that he talks to girls on facebook and get his loads off through talking to them. Whats worse is that he wants to meet up the girls to do photoshoot. Photoshoot of them in lingerie and he even dirty talk to them.

Although he likes to play photography but i feel that meeting up girls at hotel to do photoshoot is a betray because he even asked the girls not to be alarmed if he gets turn on but has no intention to bed them. He just finds it exciting to see models in lingerie. But who knows what would happen in actual right? maybe he ended up masturbating there? or asking for BJ? or maybe bed her?

I feel upset knowing what he did behind my back. But what he told me is he cannot control himself from doing all this. Once his horniess is here, he would have the temptations to talk to the girls and satisified himself. Even thou i always tell him can look for me, but he is already frustrated of me falling asleep most of the time when he is needy.

On a side note, my family is a conservative one. So, my mum and dad would never allow me to have any intercourse before marriage. Throughout the relationship with him, i have already betrayed my parents several times and i feel really bad to my family. but still, seeing him like that, i gave it to him. sometimes, i just could not bring myself to do it as i am worried how my family and people around me will look at me. Thus, i would try to do it to him only once per month is possible but i try to avoid to do it because it is considered a sin in my family and neighbours and relatives.

So, the problem now is, he wants us to get engaged but i dont know whether we should continue with him talking to girls behind my back and if i do not discover, he might have meet the girls.......

Is this normal? he said he has been masturbating since 5 years old and get turn on easily and also get aroused when his female cousins get naked infront of him altho his cousins were still around 10years of age.. I felt that he is addicted to sex because he will go crazy if i rejects him. He will scream at me, sometimes beat himself and do abusive stuff. Or he is just frustrated because i restrict him to only once a month thing? To be honest we have not done it for over 2 months because there was no opportunity for us and he is getting frustrated over it.

maxsee · #2 11-09-2012, 07:50 AM

The last thing u want to do is to get engage to someone like ur boyfriend....u deserves better.....

sane · #3 11-09-2012, 08:39 AM

If u can stand him fxxking behind ur back, go ahead. Another major factor is also if u have daughters in the future, can u trust him with them?

Big Sexy · #4 11-09-2012, 09:13 AM

you should just dump him, get yourself a new boyfriend and
if he calls you again.. tell him he needs to get medical help..

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Originally Posted by CSoALL

Is this normal? he said he has been masturbating since 5 years old and get turn on easily and also get aroused when his female cousins get naked infront of him altho his cousins were still around 10years of age.. I felt that he is addicted to sex because he will go crazy if i rejects him. He will scream at me, sometimes beat himself and do abusive stuff. .

SammyNewbie · #5 11-09-2012, 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by CSoALL

Hi everyone, I'm new here.

I am here because i have a very serious problem with my boyfriend now. I am someone.. i won't say low sex drive but mainly because i have been approached the wrong way and thus not turned on.

Your inbox will be very full from this statement. ^.^

I would have asked you to tell your boyfriend what you like in sex and to have him learn and talk about these things. But from the post, it appears that the relationship has reached a point where it's quite hard to salvage.

People already gave the correct advice. Whether or not you are going to do it however, is your choice.

Reoxy · #6 11-09-2012, 10:42 AM

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get aroused when his female cousins get naked infront of him altho his cousins were still around 10years of age.. .

Your boyfriend exhibits the traits of a Potential Pedophile.

He must be reported to the Police.

royalblood · #7 11-09-2012, 11:11 AM

your boyfriend is a sex maniac. immune to porn lol. last thing you wanna be is in an abusive relationship. just cut him off and find someone better

alan0338 · #8 11-09-2012, 11:16 AM

huh???? 5 yo PCC liao!!!!?????

sammyboyfor · #9 11-09-2012, 11:20 AM

Get yourself a new boyfriend. Problem solved.

merlinlion3 · #10 11-09-2012, 11:23 AM

@bro CSoAll

U have big difference in sex drive compared to your bf. Now u can't WhatsApp cybersex him, he openly finds other char boh for cyber. Next time u married already if u can't keep up with his kama sutra, he sure find WLs, FLs, FBs tio boh? Then when u want to have kids, sure worry de.

Why u two want to marry? He doesn't sound into u leh. Yr daddy rich ah?

fictionman · #11 11-09-2012, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by alan0338

huh???? 5 yo PCC liao!!!!?????

Hhahaha.....5 yrs old the dick can hard ah hahaha....Think cum also hvt produce yet in de balls hahaha

merlinlion3 · #12 11-09-2012, 12:01 PM

Actually baby also can HJ. Hearsay some nannies will pcc crying boy babies who will guai guai diam diam thereafter. But no sperm come out lah.

porscheclub · #13 11-09-2012, 04:08 PM

Get out of this relationship immediately. He loves you for sex only & will always move on to someone else.

Oh yes, he better see a doc for his addiction.

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #14 11-09-2012, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by CSoALL

Is this normal? he said he has been masturbating since 5 years old and get turn on easily and also get aroused when his female cousins get naked infront of him altho his cousins were still around 10years of age.. I felt that he is addicted to sex because he will go crazy if i rejects him. He will scream at me, sometimes beat himself and do abusive stuff. Or he is just frustrated because i restrict him to only once a month thing? To be honest we have not done it for over 2 months because there was no opportunity for us and he is getting frustrated over it.

Brother, you are an understanding and open-minded girlfriend, nice story.

Perhaps you may wanna contact Cesar Millan aka Dog whisperer

Camp here

hamsapkwai · #15 11-09-2012, 05:18 PM

Is this normal? he said he has been masturbating since 5 years old and get turn on easily and also get aroused when his female cousins get naked infront of him altho his cousins were still around 10years of age.. [/QUOTE]

5 Years old masturbate? Hmmm I will buy that story when i see pigs fly