marrying a nite club gal..pls advise

[stillheart]

I am with this gal for 8months, she is a malaysian .
she bagan working in nite club @ the age of 17 .she is 32 now.
when i'm with her she treated me very well . i still give her tips when i go and visit her for drinks. its her job i feel.

problem is i find out i am actually her second bf.she has a bf of 4yrs already.
but she says she loves me and want me to marry her.she lied to me 8months , i found out abt her bf because i checked on her phone.she confess.

i wanted break off but she cry sadly very sad.
i went to check on her in ktv without her seeing me there .
she was still crying.

should i trust her ?

[xyman]

Originally Posted by stillheart

I am with this gal for 8months, she is a malaysian .
she bagan working in nite club @ the age of 17 .she is 32 now.
when i'm with her she treated me very well . i still give her tips when i go and visit her for drinks. its her job i feel.

problem is i find out i am actually her second bf.she has a bf of 4yrs already.
but she says she loves me and want me to marry her.she lied to me 8months , i found out abt her bf because i checked on her phone.she confess.

i wanted break off but she cry sadly very sad.
i went to check on her in ktv without her seeing me there .
she was still crying.

should i trust her ?

15 years working, very seasoned already. I out to play only few times a week, I already can fake tears to these girls.. What you think?

Also, you are the other boyfriend, not the second.

[aduobasi]

how sad is sad when you said she cried? do not be fooled. you should tell her your now in heavy debt, if she loves you, she will volunteer to pay, if she disappear, you will know the answer

[lazyguy]

bro if she love u u think she will have two time you meh??

i just want to advise u ... dun waste ur time...

for crying i also can cry when i feel like lor... no need training 1... build in our body...

[joew2005]

another prey verus predator .....

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by stillheart

she lied to me 8months , i found out abt her bf because i checked on her phone.she confess.

Unless u r born with a brain in the ass, whenever u think only shit, else the above statement indicates how u should think.

[oceano]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Unless u r born with a brain in the ass, whenever u think only shit, else the above statement indicates how u should think.

This i strongly agree
u cannot trust such a lady much

[lawrencex]

bro honestly, no
let it go

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by stillheart

I am with this gal for 8months, she is a malaysian .
she bagan working in nite club @ the age of 17 .she is 32 now.
when i'm with her she treated me very well . i still give her tips when i go and visit her for drinks. its her job i feel.

problem is i find out i am actually her second bf.she has a bf of 4yrs already.
but she says she loves me and want me to marry her.she lied to me 8months , i found out abt her bf because i checked on her phone.she confess.

i wanted break off but she cry sadly very sad.
i went to check on her in ktv without her seeing me there .
she was still crying.

should i trust her ?

Brother, you need a reality check. I see numerous negatives you are choosing to ignore.
1) Malaysian. Is she at least Chinese? or East Asiatic?
2) 15 years of working in clubs. No desire to break out and it becomes a lifestyle?
3) You are second fiddle as you stated.

What is your ultimate goal with this gal? If you have no intent to marry her then leave her alone.

[joew2005]

hi ts,wat makes u believe u were with tis gal for 8 mths ?
fr wat u said tat she has been 2-timing, i would said tat she has been lying 2 u ... for 8 mths instead.

when she said she luvs u, u believe her ??

abt her crying incident,u could be the fool tat was con by her instead ...

no,u should not trust her becos she has lied 2 u fr the beginning.

pls do not hv the intention of marrying her.

[just_1_pohpiah]

15 years in this industry?? Friend, she can eat you alive man!

[horny03]

Trust or not is up to you. If a gal really love me she would tell me everything. For me , i won't trust her anymore and i would let her go. Cause there are still gals out there.

[arsenal_84]

if TS has not learn the skill of dissecting lies...then he is simply not ready for such a rs yet.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by stillheart

malaysian .
she bagan working in nite club @ the age of 17 .she is 32 now.
when i'm with her she treated me very well .

Why on earth would you want to marry a nite club girl???? They're part of a very poor quality gene pool.

When it comes to marriage, smart men are well aware of the fact that the girl they marry will be the mother of their kids. Surely you don't want your sons and daughters to inherit the intelligence of some nite club whore!!!

If you intend to get married and start a family, seek out an intelligent, thrifty, hardworking and honest girl to be your wife. There's a much higher chance of your kids growing up with the same sterling qualities.

Nite club girls are there simply to be fucked. Just fuck them and be done with it.

[stillheart]

thanks bros for all the advise.

she smack K
she use to gambles when young and loses hugh money 50k-100k rm
she needs to drink everyday
heavy smoker

i feel she wanted a change but we know its really hard.
i guess i shall wait and see....