Sex problems.

[serioussillyguy]

Interesting

Hoping to get right advice here? (we r here becos we are either high-sex drive or love sex very much, we r no diff with yr bf. Maybe a group 'special ones' will ask u separate w ur bf, then PM u to meet up n wanna sex u only...haha)

[nacal]

Originally Posted by hamsapkwai

Is this normal? he said he has been masturbating since 5 years old and get turn on easily and also get aroused when his female cousins get naked infront of him altho his cousins were still around 10years of age..

5 Years old masturbate? Hmmm I will buy that story when i see pigs fly [/QUOTE]

3 yrs younger than me? there's worse out there lol.

I just think he needs professional help. There's help out there, just needs to seek it.

[see see only]

Originally Posted by CSoALL

....So, the problem now is, he wants us to get engaged but i dont know whether we should continue with him talking to girls behind my back and if i do not discover, he might have meet the girls.......

Since you are talking about engaging .......

It is necessary to ask yourself .... If you cant stand it, talk to him and let him know "YOU CANT ACCEPT SUCH BEHAVIOUR" or accept who he is FOREVER .... becuase you love him

If not ... go look for another bf

Originally Posted by CSoALL

.... On a side note, my family is a conservative one. So, my mum and dad would never allow me to have any intercourse before marriage...

Instead of facing it and be educated with it ... most parent will avoid or shield their kids away from all possible "growing up" problems ..... and one of them is "SEX", even though they know one day their kids would have to face it sooner or later.....

Have a nice talk with them on this topic as well, they will be the best teacher if they willing to talk about it.

[merlinlion3]

@bro CSoAll

I kena zap big big for replying to u. Your bf might be on Sammyboy. kekeke

@CSoAll bf

Ok lah bro, I ask CSoAll marry u, u upz me back tio boh?
CSoAll, pls marry yr bf! Otherwise he very violent go around zapping people wan.

[<<totally>>]

Originally Posted by CSoALL

Is this normal? he said he has been masturbating since 5 years old and get turn on easily and also get aroused when his female cousins get naked infront of him altho his cousins were still around 10years of age..

That's the biggest joke of the day. 5 years old kiddy can PCC. I think he blow cow till the cow must burst.

[iluvbreast]

Quiet day in the office so surfing SBF, saw this funny thread about 5 yr old PCC....heheheh really made wonder how can TS believe such a thing (no offence to TS but then we all learned in School (in my days was called health education) that boys reach puberty after 10-11 yr old....me started to PCC after 11

On a serious note about engagement, share a good bit of advice: "Just ask yourself can you live with this person, accepting all that you don't like about him?" I guess you will be able to answer your own question then.

Cheers

[matthew44]

My dear sister.. I think u getting ur self into a big problem.. And before u do so ... My advice is to leave him.. There are better guys around..

[Uncouth]

To be honest, have you thought if he is truly in love with you thus wanting to get engaged or is he seeing you as a sex machine at the beck of his call and the reason behind wanting to get engaged is because you can then have no more excuses to turn him away?

This was the first question that came to my mind so I thought I will just pose them to you.


Regards,

Uncouth

[5ag1_Boar]

Originally Posted by CSoALL

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Is this normal? he said he has been masturbating since 5 years old and get turn on easily and also get aroused when his female cousins get naked infront of him altho his cousins were still around 10years of age.. I felt that he is addicted to sex because he will go crazy if i rejects him. He will scream at me, sometimes beat himself and do abusive stuff. Or he is just frustrated because i restrict him to only once a month thing? To be honest we have not done it for over 2 months because there was no opportunity for us and he is getting frustrated over it.

No. Not normal. He IS addicted to sex and very likely has some other deep seated psychological problems.

Whether its sex or something else, it is abnormal to "He will scream at me, sometimes beat himself and do abusive stuff."

Your options:
1. Stick by him and get him to go see a mental health professional about his problems. But give yourself some limits... there is a point where you have to draw the line and leave him. Take this option if you love him and want to help him, but remember that you are NOT responsible for him or his behaviour. He is responsible for himself and his behaviour and he is the one who must decided to do something about it. You are supporting him because you love him.

2. Leave him now.

[iTyrant]

hmm 5 yrs old can pcc... he must be a real doggie...

[Greendevil]

yr bf had a sex addiction problem. Either he sees a doc to have his problem solve or you leave him. Marrying a man like this is as good as accepting your hubby will fool around after marriage which he 101% will do so. Plus his abusive behaviour, it just a matter of time before he abuse u as well.

but for old time sake, i can suggest buying him a sotong as parting gift. i think he seriously need one.

[kenl8888]

Your boyfriend should see a psychatrist. He must have been exposed to porn at a young age to be such a sex maniac.. pardon me, but I do not think that he will make a good husband..he is probably telling you all this stuff about sex to make you submit to him.. What happens after marriage; are you prepared to make love with him five times a day? If not, then he has the excuse to frequent prostitutes.. YOU DESERVE BETTER!!! He is a selfish self centered goon.. If he really loves you,he should learn to care for and respect your feelings..

[merlinlion3]

Man will sure tao jia wan. Even Hugh Grant cheated on Elizabeth Hurley de.

Since the bf so high sex drive, no harm keeping him around as a FB or to join in for MMF fun loh.

[lalakers]

wondering if he might be a sex addict, which needs some sort of rehab.

thing is, if you worry about his conduct, and am not open enough for him to go unload off somewhere else, then maybe he should not be your fiance. maybe you should turn the table around and make him your fuck buddy, when you need him then only you call him, if not he doesn't matter and you can date someone else too. why restrict yourself or worry so much?

[Greatking]

Originally Posted by CSoALL

Is this normal? he said he has been masturbating since 5 years old and get turn on easily and also get aroused when his female cousins get naked infront of him altho his cousins were still around 10years of age.. I

using 2 fingers?