A very unusual morning

[smrt512]

How I dream my wife would have the same dream as your wife. Lucky you.

[Torch_Man]

biologically speakin, wen "URGE" comes:
- men at least can tahan 4 awhile, then can masturbate or go outside huntin.
- women rarely can tahan, if they really WANTS or NEEDS "IT"
due to gentials organs/structure.....

as d sayin goes"
30++yrs old, women like wolf.
40++yrs old, they r like tiger....
oso women sexual drive peak (grow stronger) later in life.

accordingly to some survey done

[etsys]

Originally Posted by (o)(o) Tuner

Frequency of sex after marriage indeed is getting lesser for me day after day. At times I really have the urge to fuck, but no matter how I hinted and beg my wife, she simply just ignore and wouldn't want to do it.

Whereas for her, if she had the urge, I would usually oblige her request and give her my best shot. Hmmm....maybe from now onwards, I will not give in to her so easily. Should let her taste her own medcine.

Sometimes I really wonder, who has a stonger urge, a man or a woman?

Bro. My 2 cents. Dont try reverse psychology on women. from my experience, even though god created eve from adam, women have more hidden instincts. And lot of psychology built in.... And strong six sense.

Men end up loser ..

Man - easier to get urge. woman, not so easy, but difficult to satisfy. So keep her your wife, and give in to her demand if you want steady life.

BTW, I am not married, and mid 30's ....... MAybe one of the married bros can add or reject my suggestion ..

[mattdaemon]

Originally Posted by (o)(o) Tuner

Frequency of sex after marriage indeed is getting lesser for me day after day. At times I really have the urge to fuck, but no matter how I hinted and beg my wife, she simply just ignore and wouldn't want to do it.

Whereas for her, if she had the urge, I would usually oblige her request and give her my best shot. Hmmm....maybe from now onwards, I will not give in to her so easily. Should let her taste her own medcine.

Sometimes I really wonder, who has a stonger urge, a man or a woman?

You can talk about your past good sex experience to stimulate your wife. In my opinion, it is much more effective than hinting and begging to get a chance to fxxk. Life in SG is very tiring for women who have kids and career. Very hard for them to handle two at the same time. So we got lesser bonk from our wives.

If you let her taste her own medicine, she can take that to heart and give you a complete NO next time, Then how?

Try to help her in household chores and let her know that you value your family. Just my 2cents worth of advice.

My personal experience is that I told my wife we need 3 things as primary foundations to build a family. I told her that the followings 3 things complement each other and she still remember about that.Here are the facts I told my wife So far, so good.
1) Love
without it we can't build a family
2) Money
without it we will have a lot of problem even if we love each other
3) Sex
no matter how much we love each other, without sex is a boring relationship.

And she never refuse whenever I ask.

[dnagene_gal]

Originally Posted by tamtam

Hey bro,

Not being negative, maybe your wife has started to suspect you having affair/steal eat outside, not every women confront their men head on, some resort to reverse phychology.

Happened to me once, she has turned from a cold fish to a hot nympho overnight, milked me dry everyday, till no more bullet for my FB.

Haha! This one is true! Women are selfish too.. Asm uch as you guys dun like to share your woman with other men... We wun want to share my guy's sperms with other women and we rather suck it all dry then the guys will have drought and cant provide for the other woman.. hahahaaaa

[=WK=]

Originally Posted by dnagene_gal

Haha! This one is true! Women are selfish too.. Asm uch as you guys dun like to share your woman with other men... We wun want to share my guy's sperms with other women and we rather suck it all dry then the guys will have drought and cant provide for the other woman.. hahahaaaa

a girl once told me she will do this to her future husband to make sure he will not play outside... i feel both happy and sad for him

[Elementary]

Originally Posted by iijeetpoon

Well said.....good advise(dun noe spell correct or not)...

Boss Sam will be telling you that advise is a verb and advice is a noun. The correct spelling is advice.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by Torch_Man

as d sayin goes"
30++yrs old, women like wolf.
40++yrs old, they r like tiger....
oso women sexual drive peak (grow stronger) later in life.
accordingly to some survey done

wah piang my oc now in her 30s but sex drive zero...if lidat means i have to wait until my oc in her 60s then she kick start her sex drive...

[(o)(o) Tuner]

Originally Posted by mattdaemon

Life in SG is very tiring for women who have kids and career. Very hard for them to handle two at the same time. So we got lesser bonk from our wives.

Try to help her in household chores and let her know that you value your family.

My personal experience is that I told my wife we need 3 things as primary foundations to build a family. I told her that the followings 3 things complement each other and she still remember about that.Here are the facts I told my wife So far, so good.
1) Love
without it we can't build a family
2) Money
without it we will have a lot of problem even if we love each other
3) Sex
no matter how much we love each other, without sex is a boring relationship.

Yes I have to agree with all your points. Now really felt life in SG is really stress. So many things to do but so little time.

My wife is putting in so much effort on the kids, but neglected my feelings. But really no choice since the kids are stilll young, so have to endure and down all my sorrow

[seowqj]

Originally Posted by mattdaemon

1) Love
without it we can't build a family
2) Money
without it we will have a lot of problem even if we love each other
3) Sex
no matter how much we love each other, without sex is a boring relationship.

And she never refuse whenever I ask.

good point here, i will adopt ur tips in my marriage thanks for sharing that.

[XboxSG]

The 1st part of your story looks quite similar to what I had gone through but I'm not as lucky as you on the 2nd part.

[bkkguy]

I used to have the same problem with my wife.Sex was frequent in our early marriage but later it become less frequent. Reason : Tired and need to take care of our 3 kids blah... blah....

One day, I confronted her with this sex issue. I told her as head of the family , it my duty to take care of the family needs. She as my wife, must not neglect my occational need for sex also.

We've since talked it over and came to term of twices per week(every Wed & Sat). So when the night come for her to perform her wifey duty, she will wait for me on the bed without me asking.

[hatyaiking]

I think your wife must have done something wrong, maybe a fling with other male colleague.....telling your a white lie like dreaming of you having sex with her colleague is just an excuse to make you feel happy, please be careful and take some time to observe her, similar incidents have happened before to my friends.

[(o)(o) Tuner]

Originally Posted by bkkguy

I used to have the same problem with my wife.Sex was frequent in our early marriage but later it become less frequent. Reason : Tired and need to take care of our 3 kids blah... blah....

One day, I confronted her with this sex issue. I told her as head of the family , it my duty to take care of the family needs. She as my wife, must not neglect my occational need for sex also.

We've since talked it over and came to term of twices per week(every Wed & Sat). So when the night come for her to perform her wifey duty, she will wait for me on the bed without me asking.

Yeah I do know interaction is important for a couple. But seriously for us is really lack of time. By the time we reach home and finish dinner, it's already about 9pm. Rest a while, shower the kids and get them ready for bed - 10pm. Usually my wife go to bed with the kids and I'll watch my 10pm news or sports channel and read thru' the papers. 1230pm is my bedtime.

Haizzz...Guess this are the sacrifices after married. Now I understand why married men/women have extramarital affairs.

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by dnagene_gal

Haha! This one is true! Women are selfish too.. Asm uch as you guys dun like to share your woman with other men... We wun want to share my guy's sperms with other women and we rather suck it all dry then the guys will have drought and cant provide for the other woman.. hahahaaaa

finally a confession from a gal!!!

As much as I guessed, those PRC gfs of mine, especially juz b4 I travel, will really bonk me dry until I wanna hang white flag! Really so dry until, I wont wanna think of sex 4 at least 1 week! There was even 1 of them, from a village / farm, travelled 23 hrs by train, across several provinces, I believe 2 "stick" 2 me, making it inconvenient 4 me 2 be wif other gals, cos I was re-deployed 2 GuangZhou. 2 bad, tat time I was staying & working in outskirt of GuangZhou, a damn boring town, to get to GuangZhou city itself, gotta drive 1 hr!!! B4 tat, she thinks it must be an interesting & flourishing place, since it's the provincial capital!!! When she saw the surrounding gals are more suaku & more old-fashioned (appearance) than her, she was even rather proud about it!!! Then she left after about 3 days!!!

Similarly, I'm often drained out by my gfs in Thailand. Until I dun even feel like going out. Prefer 2 stay at home & rest nowadays. The feeling of near-empty balls is really not tat nice, u oso feel u simply "lack" some energy. Gotta take more tonics...