Getting into a relationship with a ML

[jj_jj]

Originally Posted by davidn9

Why would she offer me a FJ? From what i know she don't offer FJ to anyone else. (She don't have carry any CD with her) Not that i want to feel privileged or what.. but from what i know she always turn down offers from other people.

FJ is the bait to lure you in.. hook, line and sinker..
To her you are a "golden ticket" to stay here forever or till she has made enough to balek kampong

you are just on the rebound, think hard with the big head..
take care

[PPGirl]

Originally Posted by davidn9

But if she's trying to lie to me. Why would she offer me a FJ? From what i know she don't offer FJ to anyone else. (She don't have carry any CD with her) Not that i want to feel privileged or what.. but from what i know she always turn down offers from other people.

How would u knw she dun offer fj to anyone else? Are u with her 24 hrs?

[maxsee]

You actually believe the things she told u? ....

[davidn9]

She don't carry CD with her, so doubt she offered to others before. no??

[guess67]

Originally Posted by davidn9

She don't carry CD with her, so doubt she offered to others before. no??

She dont carry when meeting u. Doesnt mean she dont carry when meeting others

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by davidn9

She don't carry CD with her, so doubt she offered to others before. no??

You checked her bag?

[korean]

Originally Posted by davidn9

Hi bros,

Need some serious advise from the experts here.

Recently i went for a massage after a tiff/uninitiated break-up with my gf. Then i came to know about this ML who was servicing me. I seems to got hooked and have been returning almost every day to look for her. I think i am falling deeper and deeper but i can't seems to control it because my mind is always thinking of her even when i'm at work.

The reason is because she has been kind and nice to me (high gfe) everytime i am there. She even told me about her personal life in China and so on and asks if i want to marry her. Of course, brothers here may raise the red flag and say that this is common and she is trying to win me over for some other reason other than love. (money, citizenship, pr) I know and have been cautious.

She told me she is in her twenties which looked like it when she puts on make-up. (Although i think she's more in her early thirties when she showed me some personal photos of herself without make-up. I didn't question her since age hardly matters to me.)

She has invited me over to her place for a FJ and i was told to bring a CD. (FJ is not part of her massage)

A few questions that are bothering me:
- Is she toying with my feeling or is she serious with me?
- Is money/citizenship what she might be looking at?
- This may sounds stupid: but should i accept her offer? (I am interested in her, and may decide to go on a long term relationship but at the same time i'm afraid of other problems that might surface in the future..such as how to persuade her to change her job, migration, family problems)
- How safe is it when i use a CD? (She told me she only did with ex bfs and not her clients - about 3 of them)
- I do have feeling for my ex-gf and we might get back together one day, so i'm guilty to be even doing this.

What do you guys think?

Since u still have feeling for your ex and possibly get back together one day, why not patch back now? u may get addicted if u continue with the ML. If u choose to take the offer from ML, dont think too much, just go for it and you will know the outcome. Enjoy and good luck!

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by davidn9

Okay, thanks for all the advice so far.

But if she's trying to lie to me. Why would she offer me a FJ? From what i know she don't offer FJ to anyone else. (She don't have carry any CD with her) Not that i want to feel privileged or what.. but from what i know she always turn down offers from other people.

Any bros here managed to get into a r/s with someone in this trade for the long term?

Woman best weapon is to use sex to trap man lar. Man is rule by small brain.

[conquer]

Originally Posted by davidn9

She don't carry CD with her, so doubt she offered to others before. no??

Please give me her contact. Let me go try it out... I'm serious here, TS.

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by davidn9

She don't carry CD with her, so doubt she offered to others before. no??

Maybe her client house has cartons of CD, maybe the hotel or the client house where she meet below or somewhere nearby has 7-11, cheers which sell CD, & she can buy it there anytime. There r a lots of possibilities......

Bro, I dun know your age. If u r a mature adult, at your age, u still believe whatever a ML say to u. Then u r naive

Have u heard the song "LOVE FOOL"? Nice song. Another song I recommend to u is "TIAN ZHEN" by singer Alex Du De Wei, the English title for this song call "INNOCENT".

[vampangel]

Originally Posted by davidn9

She don't carry CD with her, so doubt she offered to others before. no??

maybe her workplace won't allow her to carry condoms
or maybe she like to do raw wth her regulars
since you and her doing for the first time so she wants you to cap
haha
next visit no need condoms if she feels save with you after first inspection *wink*

[a2014]

Originally Posted by davidn9

The reason is because she has been kind and nice to me (high gfe) everytime i am there.

people working in this trade need to be kind to every customer that comes along as they represent money.

Originally Posted by davidn9

She even told me about her personal life in China and so on and asks if i want to marry her.

This is standard speech, don't know how many time she has repeated this to so call good guys that she has met. Only time will tell.

Originally Posted by davidn9

Of course, brothers here may raise the red flag and say that this is common and she is trying to win me over for some other reason other than love. (money, citizenship, pr) I know and have been cautious.

She is earning a living so money is the primary concern. PR and Citizenship are far fetch, something that is good to have but not a must for them.

Originally Posted by davidn9

She told me she is in her twenties which looked like it when she puts on make-up. (Although i think she's more in her early thirties when she showed me some personal photos of herself without make-up. I didn't question her since age hardly matters to me.)

If you can bring her out under a broad daylight without make up you will see the different.

Originally Posted by davidn9

She has invited me over to her place for a FJ

This one getting tricky, decent girl don't ask for FJ but again ask for FJ doesn't mean not decent. You take it as it come along, do not think too deep into it. Time will tell you the difference.

Originally Posted by davidn9

i was told to bring a CD. (FJ is not part of her massage)

This girl certainly knows her trade, lady in her trade do not bring CD or any sex related items along with her. This is due to when got raid be it in the work place or her staying place or on the street with a guy, when search and found such items in her bag, SPF will not bother to ask the second question, go up the van and explain later at the police station. Local girls with CD in the bag is OK.

Originally Posted by davidn9

Is she toying with my feeling or is she serious with me?

We are not you, so we don't know, you have to see it yourself and don't rush into things, take things as it comes along, if she want to f.... and you like it, go for it but be safe and make sure you pay.

Originally Posted by davidn9

Is money/citizenship what she might be looking at?

Money 100%, the rest say for the sake of a conversation. If your carrot head stick out, then she will chop. If not no harm done at her end.

Originally Posted by davidn9

should i accept her offer? (I am interested in her, and may decide to go on a long term relationship but at the same time i'm afraid of other problems that might surface in the future..such as how to persuade her to change her job, migration, family problems)

Such a short time you want to decide, next time you meet another one how? If you venture far enough, you can find many of such quality around. Take your time.

Originally Posted by davidn9

How safe is it when i use a CD? (She told me she only did with ex bfs and not her clients - about 3 of them)

Trust it at face level, in such a short time she can invite you to enter her, and quoted 3 more, what make you think that there isn't others. They can be categorize as you, ex bfs and general customers, so she have not mention general customers. Your guess is as good as mind.

Originally Posted by davidn9

I do have feeling for my ex-gf and we might get back together one day, so i'm guilty to be even doing this.

How your gf become your ex, you have to think. How this ML become something into mind. Looks like problem lies in yourself. You are looking at things that may or may not possible happen and for go other possibility.

I am not saying that you are wrong but a lot of uncertainty and unknown.

TS, think wisely before you act, take care.

[orangeproud]

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If you can bring her out under a broad daylight without make up you will see the difference /QUOTE]

Bro, if u can see her without any make up & dress up during daytime, u may find her just like any of a plain looking gals who living next door.

Bcos of their trade, they r expertise in make up & dress themselves up, know wat man like to listen, know how man like to being served.....all these r packaging.

Why dun find a simple decent gal? Bcos they r too plain, too boring, too decent???

Dun totally believe in wat they say, they r expert liar most of the time.

Can choose to doubt on our advice, time can tell the truth

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by orangeproud

Bro

Do u like the song "LOVE FOOL"? Nice song.....

Love me, love me
Say that u love me
Fool me, fool me
Go on and fool me
Love me, love me
Pretend that u love me........

May find answer over this song

other than marrying her to help her get PR,
other things like $$$, wonder how much she can squeeze out of TS
just like those who Kao beh garment tax them too much, I wonder how much they earn and how much tax they pay
while our income will keep coming, how much time has she got ?

[NonActive2015]

You are my 2nd man that entered my wet pussy.

I love you so much.

I never offer any FJ to any other men since I broke off with my 1st b/f.

Please don't pay me any $$$ for the FJ as I sincerely and truly love you.

Marry me.