It changes everything....

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Mom Perspective

ah boy has grown up so much. Wonder how is he coping with his army life. Lately he is different

We used to chat on everything, but he has been more reserved. We felt more distant.

Is it because he has a gf now?

But he keep denying it.

I had been so busy with my work that I really need to spend more effort to maintain my relationship with him.

He is growing into a men now. He is the only family i had.

I am meeting Amy this afternoon -she is one of my secondary school besties. We were so close that other classmates called us TWINS . She is right by my side at the lowest point

she literally watch ah boy grew up, and always complimenting that he looks like me

Mom: Hi babe

Amy: hi bitch!

Mom: com'on.... why am i a bitch?

Amy: you are. who dress like that in the late 30s?

Mom: the weather is hot la

Recap: this is what she wore



Amy: how's life

Mom: same lo, busy busy busy

Amy: how busy can property agent be

Mom: hello, you think we just bring client see house?

Amy: abuden

Mom: my god, you bimbo. we have alot of paper work to follow up on weekdays. need to do research for client. do a pre-visit for potential unit, speak with seller agent, understand client's financial................goes on for the next 5min

Amy: okok. you win you win

Mom: you?

Amy: just the regular stuff

Mom: what regular stuff?

Amy: i joined the SAF!

Mom: what??!! as a soldier?

Amy: no lahhh. I joined their DXO program. I working at depot road now as a program manager

Mom: what is that?

Amy: basically, i takes care of external program SAF has with private setor, blah blah blah blah blah, and they need someone with corporate experience to deal with them

Mom: uh huh. SAF no such people meh?

Amy: you know. Alot of the people inside SAF, had been working there since day 1. Their idea of how the private sector function is limited to 20 years ago. Even the process in SAF is outdated

Mom: i though they have alot of scholars?

Amy: ya. i see tons of them at my workplace. Still, they not expose to private sector

Mom: got handsome one?

Amy: LOTS of them!

And they start to bitch and gossip about all the people amy has to deal with. From general, to colonel, to young captain.

Amy: there is this airforce officer. my god. every women is all over him. He looks so good. Tall frame, chiselled jaw, broad shoulder and chest, flat tummy..

Mom: and then

Amy: when he goes running around the compoud, you see his leg, his muscle... you will be wet

Mom: oh my god.... you are lusting over him

Amy: ya... you want him to hug you, kiss you

Mom: you are married, with a 6 year old girl

Amy: i cannot fantasy meh

Mom: your husband not giving you enough "fun"? hahahahahahahahaha

Amy: don't be a bitch la. he needs to flatten his tummy first, and sort out his sagging chest, and fixes his looks

Her husband was a dragon-boater in NTU. She feel in love with him while studying, and been together ever since.
He has a degree in computer science, and went into cybersecurity after graduation. It pays well, but heavy workload.
Once their daughter arrives, he stopped his body maintenance, and has a full grown dad-bod now.

Mom: at least you had that before right?

Amy: aiya those were the days. Anyway im too old to be lusting over young man now. ahahahahahha


They continued their high tea chatting

Just as the day is getting late - one of Amy's collegaue walked pass

(let's call him jensen)

Jensen: Amy?

Amy: Jensen?

jensen: what a coincidence

Amy: yaaa.. surprise to see you here

Jensen: yeah i was with my friends, gathering. You?

Amy: XXX, this is Jensen, Jensen, this is XXX


Jensen: hi (reaches out his hand)

Mom: hi (shook his hand)

He has a strong hand. and a firm handshake. A jolt of electrical shockwave moves down her spine


Jensen: friend? sister? neighbours?

Mom: friend.

Jensen: oh, is Amy your senior in shool?

Amy: heyyyy! we are same age ok. dont be an idiot!

Jensen: what? stop lying. I will report to ethic concil if you lied

Amy: bleahhhhh

Mom was smiling at their bickering

Amy: you leaving soon?

Jensen: yeah, my friends are all fathers, they need to fetch their kids post tuition now

Amy: wanna join us? XXX you ok?

Mom: why not. im bored talking to you too

Amy: *roll eyes*

Jensen: thanks for the invite. happy to join you ladies.

Jensen started to introduce himself. He is a COL now in the SAF, based at depot road like Amy. Already in his eary 40s. He got a scholarship from govt, and studied in the UK.
Those friend he met were his UK classmates
Jensen is dealing with international collaboration, and Amy assist him at times to bridge and communication gaps when he needs to engage external vendor

Jensen: so what are you working as?

mom: i help client source for their dream home, and investor with a clear asset progression plan

Jensen: a property agent?

Mom: in layman terms, yes

Jensen: what a coinidence. I am on a lookout for a property?

Mom: oh, where you looking for?

Jensen: somewhere in town.

Mom: stay or investment?

Jensen: stay

Mom: wife and kids, a 3 bedder?

Jensen: im not married. alone. looking for my bachelor pad

Mom: where are you staying now?

Jensen: with my parents?

Mom: wow.. still living with parents. No privavy concern?

Jensen: nah. my silbing has moved out, and that house is more big enough to have alot of privacy

Amy: *whispering* he lives in a bungalow at bukit timah

Jenson: eh...i can hear that

Mom: hahahahah.

Jensen: infact i just met an agent that i random message from a propertyguru listing.

Mom: oh. so you had an agent. where did you view?

Jensen: i just viewed upstairs

That's ion residence

Amy: rich siaaaaaaaaa

Jensen: eh..no wife, no kids, no home, no need buy lunch, no need spend $ on work wear, i saved alot of $ ok

Amy: and you rode a motorbike to work

Jensen: that is not an ordinary motorbike..........

Its a harley davidson.

Mom: how long have you been searching for a home?

Jensen: just today?

Mom: oh. keen to engage an agent to help you look around?

Jensen: how does it work?

Mom: you engage me...i find a few options for you, based on your preference, you like it, you buy it?

Jensen: how about that agent i met this morning?

Mom: did you sign anything

Jensen: he gave me nothing to sign. We just viewed the unit, and he said if im interested i can let him know

Mom: that is the seller agent. You need a buyer agent

Jensen: ohhhhhhhh


now i know why amy said they are disconnected from the world.......

[ichiban1980]

Any update?

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My Perspective

Its sunday, and i woke up at 9am. I reach home around 9pm on a saturday, to find mom not home yet (she did say she will be home late), and i went to bed early.

The early session with B really drains lots of energy. I can still feel my cock head sensitivitiness, but the tiredness simply overcame my horniness.

I did not had such a good sleep for so long. This 12 hour of sleep is really good

like all typical 19 years old, first thing i do is to unlock my phone screen, and check IG for updates

its the typical updates i see on IG. a few pretty influencer i followed updated their evening, where they went, etc

Some NBA higlights from the 6am games.

I scroll for another min, and saw a post from mom, and the time is 730m, and its a picture of her at our pool



she is wearing this new bikini set

Then i went into her IG story, and it is a post that looks like this



I know she is a morning person, but never expect her to be that early. That post is at 730am

i went out to wash up, and saw my mom already working on her laptop. She is now wearing her typical home clothes


Mom: baby, you awake. slept well?

Me: yes mom. i slept very well

Mom: you were home so early. where did you go? u seldom slept so early.

oh no.... what should i tell her?

Me: yeah. went out to meet K & G. Have dinner at bugis and came home

Mom: them again? you need to get a life baby. haha

Me: com'on... again

Mom: let's go. remember we are going for our fav bak chor mee!

Me: ok, let's go!

Mom: you not changing?

Me: this is fine?

Mom: i need to change



what a nice outfit for a morning breakfast....

We hope onto her car, and started driving

Mom: baby, how's you and jiaxuan going?

Me: what is that for?

Mom: i saw her the other day. she recognizes me, but she ignored me and quickly walked away

Me: no idea

Mom: you made her angry?

Me: no i didnt?

Mom: then you did made her angry

Me: i just said i didnt

Mom: Man are always man, never admit to mistakes

Me: woahhhhhh. dont stereotype

Mom: im not referring to you. you are still my boy!

Me: hello! im a man already. see my biceps

MomOOOOOOOO. so scaryyyy~~~~

Mom: but seriously, do you have girl friends?

Me: ya, i do.

Mom: where are they?

Me: in JC?

Mom: i mean now?

Me: at home?

Mom: you know what im asking. do you meet your girl friends?

Me: errrrrr

Mom: see. you are not meeting girls. you are always hanging with guys, and your ball

Me: errrr.. basketball is my passion. Why should i hang out with girls?

Mom: you see. that is what i am worried about. You are not meeting girls enough.

Me: but i am happy meeting whom im meeting

Mom: are you gay?

Me: MOM!!! no. i am perfectly normal

Mom: you sure? you know you can be honest with me?

Me: i am perfectly normal. I still bio chiobu on the streets

Mom: then why am i not seeing you meeting girls?

Me: because i have you?

Mom: ..........

Mom: that is very sweet baby. But mummy cannot be you other half.

and the conversation goes on and on and on until we reach the coffee shop

Dammm...the queue is long......

Found a seat, and we started eating

We talked about army, talked about how i will suffer another confinement this weekend due to that extra i had to sign

she is cursing and swearing about those stupid sergeant and officer, and only stupid people wants to have a career in the army (she is referring to my fucker dad)

the rest of the day went by uneventfully. we continue to chat about everything, and bicker on every small little thing like how we were for the past 10 years.

I went back to home, and spend time playing game.

She went out to meet client for viewing

Surprisingly, she came back at 5pm, and offer to send me to Pasir ris MRT

Mom: i wont be seeing you for 12 days!! booooooooo

Me: relax lah. im not going to jail

Mom: i tot your the field camp is the longest sepratetion i had with you. now again

Me: hahaha

Mom: let me bring u to the MRT. i want to stare at the stupid sergent who did this to you

Me: if you do that, i will tio mark

Mom: who is mark?

Me: its a term to say i will get aim by the sergeant

Mom: see my complain to mindef fierce or their aim

Ok, she dont understand a single thing i say

Me: anyway, just 12 day. you get busy. It is just 4 more weeks to POP, and i might not need to go tekong again

Mom: hope so

and then...we reaches pasir ris MRT

[xijodoy65]

nice hot body

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back in the camp, back to the usual

on a wednesday, we start to practice for our POP road march. we were drawing arms, and suddenly OC walked out of his office, and a smart alec shouted "PLATOON DIAM!"

my buddy, just about to receive his rifle, got startled by this and drop his rifle.

every eyes is looking at him

CSM walk towards him

"See me in office"

5min later, he came out. He also signed an extra

He will serve it together with me this weekend...

we were cursing and swearing at army

fast forward, its weekend

all the bastard happily booked out on friday, and we were alone in the bunk.

next morning 7am after breakfast, we gather at the company line office for our assignment

Me and buddy got assigned to guard the jetty, and we are on 2hr shift with another team

others got assigned as prowler, and had to walked the school

we arent allowed to use our phone while on duty, so buddy is always texting whenever its our break

Soon, its night time. We were having dinner at the cookhouse

Me: why are you always on your phone?

Buddy: texting lo, scroll social media lo

Me: no bored?

Buddy: what we doing now is boring

Me: haha. Texting girlfriend?

Buddy: girlfriendsssss

Me: you fucking hao lian

then we started talking about nonsense stuff. The dinner is quick, and we want to go back and rest before our next shift

Me: eh, any new epsidoe?

buddy: what?

me: that one la?

buddy: which one?

me: that video you showed me

buddy: fuck off

me: show lehhhh

buddy: nonono. it is a chargeable offense to posses obscene film inside your phone

me: eh fuck, dont give me this bullshit

buddy: nononon. nothing

me: ok, there is something indeed

i am now grabbing him

buddy: oiii.. stop

me: i always take care of you when you shag, now u dun show me

buddy: personal stuff la.

me:nono. we are buddy, need to be honest with each other

buddy: no no no

my hand start to reach into his pocket

he starts to struggle

buddy: can you respect me?!

ok. i have crosses the line. i stopped

me: sorry sorry. i though it was fun

buddy: nothing fun about this

we went quite for the next few min

i decided to break the ice

me: you know, i just had my first fuck last saturday


buddy: wooooohoooooo. men liao leh. with gf ah?

me: no la

buddy: went geylang?

me: no la

buddy: called FL?

me: no la?

buddy: then with the canteen aunty ah?

me: fuck you

buddy: so who?

me: a massage lady

buddy: serious?

me: yeah

buddy: how did it happen?

i then describe the whole thing to him

he just nodding his head while listening to me

me: i not just how, but something, i feel i am in a position on power over them

buddy: cause you paying $

me: no..


then i describe jiaxuan case to him.

me: so that is it. so strange

buddy: nothing strange about that

me: what do you mean?

buddy: some girls are slut

me: but they are not

buddy: correct. but most girl has an inner desire to be sluts. to be dominiated. to be controlled and over powered

me: really?

buddy: if not how you think i have those video?

me: what the fuck

buddy: some girls, are easy. most girls, you need to spend alot of time to draw out that desire. once it comes out, it can never be kept again

me: listening intently

buddy: one they tasted that feeling, they will be hooked. their desire will overpower their mind. they want to feel good

me: yes yes

buddy: when you touches them, it sends electricity into their body

me: yes yes

buddy: they will listen to your instructions

me: you are right

buddy: and no matter how their mind tells you they shouldnt be doing that, they will still let you do whatever you want

me: yesssss

buddy: you just has to find out what triggers it. makes them comfortable with you, makes them enjoy whatever they were doing. their hormones will do wonders to them.

me: how?

buddy: when they feel happy, they are more open to have skin contact. more skin contact means more touches. more touches means you can get even closer to their sensitive region

me: teach me leh.. please

buddy: start by touching their arm. if they are ok, keep it there. dont immediately move to other places

me: ok

buddy, then find a place that you want her to see, then move from hand from arm to her back. touch the part where her bra clip usually are. that is the most sensitive part at the back


me: and then

buddy: keep you hand there. if no objection, give it some light caress. not the sexual and pervert type, but the soothing type

buddy: then a few mins later, guide her to continue walking. slowly move your hand to their lower back, just above their bum. that will send another electric signal.

buddy: if no objection, leave it there as you walk. so far this is still not too touchy. and leave it this way for rest of the evening

me: the end?

buddy: no la

buddy: if she still agrees to meet you, keep it hot. meet her again following day, and let your hand be at where it last stayed. if no objections, just enjoy the day

buddy: find some crowded place and move your hand to her waist, and pulled her closer to you. if no objection, and enjoy

me: china town?

buddy: fuck you la. go to clark quay or whatever lah. especially with bars and clubs

buddy: you can occasionally use ur thumb give her waist some rub. it will send electricity up her spine

buddy: by now if still no rejection, she is getting very comfortable with you. if the crowd is thick, hold her hand. 100% she will let you. cos you already hold her waist before, which is more sensitive than hand

buddy: you can bring her to a club. be a gentleman, pay for the drinks

me: uh huh

buddy: if she agrees, you are 75% there

buddy: gave her a long island, or bourbon coke. when the music goes loud, ask her to move. jio her to dance

buddy: if she is shy, be encouraging. bit by bit, get her to move. compliment her. have a few more sip of drinks

buddy: after a cup, she should be very relax. make her more confident to move, and she will eventually

buddy: you will be surprise, when a girl is in the mood to dance, their hand is usually should up, that will leave their waist expose

buddy: encourage her, comppliment her, and her hormones will start playing tricks on her

buddy: when she is totally releaxed, you can leave your hand on her waist and start moving with her

my jaw dropped

buddy: the club should be fairly crowded. when it gets late, its gets more crowded. use this opportunity to pull her closer to you. ideally a fist distance between 2 chest

buddy: keep this as safety distance, as you do not want to alert her safety sense. continue to move with her. as long as she dont reject you, you are on track

buddy: continue to toast with her, small sip is fine. use your thumb to sooth her waist. find an opportunity to move bit by to her back facing the table

buddy: find a chance get her her drink, and reach behind her to grab it. this will close the distance between you 2

buddy: if she didnt back off, and let you get close, you are 90% there

buddy: now, magically, have your face close to her, and looking at her. if she looked away, shake the drink infront of her, and continue this

me: and if she didnt looked away

buddy: look at her. move your hand to her back, show her her drink. you sip it, and you kiss her

me: what if she pushes me away

buddy: say sorry, say you got carried away. but that is unlikely

me: and if she didnt

buddy: let your instinct tells you what to do next. you have already won.

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Mom's Perspective

Jensen has inform me formally to help him look out for a his properties. A stroke of good luck, i have found 3 units within my network of agents whom has seller within the orchard vicinity

i decided to text him on a wednesday morning

Me: Hi Mr Jensen, im Serene (let's give my mom a fictatious name here)
Me: i have 3 units that met your requirement, when would you like to have a look? both seller are ok for saturday 11am - 4pm

no reply at all. guess he ghosted me


fast forwad to 5pm

*ting ting*

Jensen: hey serene, sorry for the late reply. busy the whole day. yes sure, saturday im ok

Me: Oh hi! i though you have already gotten what you want, and thus the no reply!

Jensen: haha. nono. not yet. just back to back meeting for the day, and i kept my personal phone inside my bag

Me: ic. shall i meet you this saturday 11am at the marq? this is a hot unit, and seller is ok with a fast deal. we can issue the OTP.

Me: do you know the seller?

Serene: i know their agent


Jensen: haha. yes yes. i forget about this agent thingy

Me: is that timing ok. base on both unit the selling price blah blah blah blah blah

Jensen: okok. too much text and details. i cant digest over whatsapp

Me: will you prefer a meet up for me to explain?

Jensen: how about we meet for breakfast on saturday then you run through the details with me

Me: sure sure. I'll meet you. Where is a good place?

Jensen: 930am, eggslut @ scotts

Me: got it. see you

Jensen: see you, serene

Fast forward, its saturday.




Me: Hi Jensen, im here

Jensen: Hi, im inside. come'on in

He is dressed smartly today.

He got me a sandwich, and i went through the details with him

Me: there is 3 unit to view today. 1 at the marq, 1 at paterson and another OUE twin peaks

Jensen: nearby each other

Me: yep. all with excellent connectivity

i am going through all the details with him, and he listened intently. He has that look that stares deep into a person, and whenever our eyes met, i had to look away in order not to be mesmerize by him

Me: jensen, its 11am, the seller agent has texted me the owner is ready. shall we?

Jensen: yes sure.

Me: i'll see you there

Jensen: we travel separately?

Me: if not?

Jensen: save the planent, i'll take your car. better than i had to wait for you, or you wait for me.

Me: sure. but the parking here is expensive... u sure u ok with it?

Jensen: no worries about that.

Fast forward

Jensen is really a sincere buyer. He asked important question, like fees, like mortage payment, like neighbours. We spend approx 1hour per unit, with another 30min to 45min talking over details of that unit.

We had lunch at Takashimaya, and went on to the 2nd and 3rd unit. at the end of it, we were both exhausted.

Me: finally, we are done. do you have anything in mind now jensen?

Jensen: i need to run over the details again. let's talk over dinner

Me: ok. Shall we go to a cafe?

Jensen: let's eat at ion

Me: sure.

At ION

Me: how about five guys?

Jensen: too noisy

Me: then paradise?

Jensen: you have time today?

Me: yes i do

Jensen: i bring you somewhere

And he brought me to ion sky. And we had dinner at FLNT

my god. first time at this retaurant. the view is spectacular



and the first glass of sake appeared

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By the end of dinner, i had already down 6-8 cups of sake, and mildy tipsy. It is almost 10pm

i am getting more and more comfortable with jensen.

he is so gentlemen, cool, and humourous. he is having me giggling whole night

Me: So jensen, why are you buying a house in orchard area?

Jensen: cos i can?

Me: such a cock man

Jensen: that is self confidence

Me: so any unit to your liking

Jensen: only one that i find to my liking

Me: it must the the OUE tiwn peaks, i can sense you really like that

Jensen: nope

Me: then must the paterson. you went to have a look at the gym and the pool. You wont bother to do that if you aint keen

Jensen: nope

Me: the marq? that's a surprise. i though you find the facilities there boring, and noisy as it faces the main road

Jensen: nope

Me: then what is it? i am no so drunk

Jensen: Im looking at it

Me: hu?

Jensen: im look at it. you interest me.. the most

Me: blushes

Jensen: you are so detailed orient, so full of energy, so witty, and so down to earth. I cannot find a reason to not like you

Me: thanks....

he cheers with me, and i bottoms up that sake

Jensen: that way you handle the seller, ready to fight base case for me, i really appreciate it

He cheers with me again, and i bottoms up yet another cup of sake

Jensen: and you, so full or engery, i feel young again beside you

another cheers

My mood is pretty high now, and i starting to let go

Me: so what kind of house you like

Jensen: a house with a view

Me: like?

Jensen: i show you?

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my heart is beating really fast. what shall i say?