How to reject FL ?

[Private88]

Like to check with all brothers here, not sure anyone has encountered this problem... when you received a contact no. from one of the bros here and make a booking with this FL at H81. When she comes, you discover she is not what you want or the look is quite different from what was described in the thread, how to reject this FL ?

When I travel overseas, normally just give S$20 equivalent of cash and ask her to leave. Can I do the same in SG ?

Thanks in advance !

[Cerberus]

Usually $20 is the market rate. However, it is best to meet her at a coffeeshop or something. Like that, she cannot kick up a big fuss if she thinks $20 is too little. Furthermore, you save yourself $20 since never open room.

[kira-san]

for me usually if things like this does happen den i will juz pay her abt 20bucks to 30 for her transportation fee.. and inform the OKT to let them know..

[Private88]

Originally Posted by Cerberus

Usually $20 is the market rate. However, it is best to meet her at a coffeeshop or something. Like that, she cannot kick up a big fuss if she thinks $20 is too little. Furthermore, you save yourself $20 since never open room.

I think pre-meeting at a coffee shop is a good idea, however, not sure the FL willing to meet there as she might think it is a waste of time...

Honestly, as I am not that active in the hunting of FL, so far based on my very limited dealings with 4 FLs in SG, 2 of them totally cannot make it (but still proceed to complete due to not sure how to reject outright), 1 is neutral and only 1 is BEST (too bad she went back to China already, she is very popular on this site)...

Also like to urge all kind hearted brothers to reflect true rating whenever write a FR, this will help to avoid any such unpleasant experience of 货不对办...

Cheers...

[Cerberus]

Originally Posted by kira-san

for me usually if things like this does happen den i will juz pay her abt 20bucks to 30 for her transportation fee.. and inform the OKT to let them know..

If you book thru OKT, usually they will ask you to go to the FL room. If dun like, just walk off. Why still need to pay "transportation fee" since the FL is staying inside the room anyway?

Originally Posted by Private88

I think pre-meeting at a coffee shop is a good idea, however, not sure the FL willing to meet there as she might think it is a waste of time.....

Also like to urge all kind hearted brothers to reflect true rating whenever write a FR, this will help to avoid any such unpleasant experience of 货不对办...

Well, can always wait in H81 lobby or nearby lor. If she refused, then most probably attitude questionable. Usually, they won't have any issues waiting nearby. They also dun wan to get into situation where they kenna aeroplane and go knocking onto an empty room door or got other ppl inside de.

As for the FRs, you have to exercise your own discretion on which FRs to trust.

[hardpoke]

my view is this.. so far i never rejected FL.. first of all, i myself already fat so I dun think it is nice to reject.. secondly, if i reject, then how i find a replacement in a short time? waste the room money still never mind but my lil bro needs attention how? so usually i will accept whatever comes..

BUT, if she really buang until you almost puke upon opening the door, then maybe you can just tell her "sorry but you are different from my expectation.. hope you don't mind but i will pay for your traveling expenses.. 对不起，你似乎跟我想象中的不太一样.. 希望你不建议，这二十块就当我补偿你的车费..".. case closed..

[iceteaguy]

i think TS is looking a quality bonk rather then quantity bonk ... either able to find a replacement in short time is not important at all. I also prefer but nearby hotel or lobby at least you got a choice whether to continue or not ... mostly, after we get the room, we just simply "accept" even really cant make it.

[Private88]

Originally Posted by iceteaguy

i think TS is looking a quality bonk rather then quantity bonk ... either able to find a replacement in short time is not important at all. I also prefer but nearby hotel or lobby at least you got a choice whether to continue or not ... mostly, after we get the room, we just simply "accept" even really cant make it.

Ya...this is true, as I am old uncle now, frequency of bonking is not something we are looking for. Mainly we are looking for a great time with someone we like and comfortable with, even if it is just PCC or BJ + GF feeling and nice chat, the session is worth for me to fork out fat tip at the end... I am fine to ask her to leave and I will leave the hotel room too, no point wasting time with someone of 4/10, 5/10 rating that feel like being raped ! ! !

About the accuracy of FRs, that could be my problem too when I used to travel to China for business trips and get to meet chicks with 8/10 or 9/10 grades easily and spoiled for choice there... Guess I need to adjust my expectation when cheonging in SG...

[glooper83]

Haha, i always struggle with this issue. Once i met a thai fl that really really.. made me feel like i kena raped. Since then i stopped previewing those nicely touched up photos cos most often what you see is not what you get.

For me its the issue of $ cos some people are asking for more than what they should command. Sometimes i go back hitting myself on the head saying i could have spent a lil more to get a proven good looking fl. So FRs do play an impt role.. but its troublesome having to go thru all of the FRs just to decide.

And i hate to be a 'nasty' guy to turn these girls away... especially when i do not have any back up plans. The recent crackdown on fls standing along the roadside is bad bcos i dont get a live preview anymore and i am subjected to the mercy of the frs here.

Lastly i think bro hardpoke's "sorry but you are different from my expectation.. hope you don't mind but i will pay for your traveling expenses.. 对不起，你似乎跟我想象中的不太一样.. 希望你不建议，这二十块就当我补偿你的车费.." would help. But i think at the end of the day, the words still fail to escape from my lips.

[jackie666]

I have had couple of very bad experience recently with okt. One was with this okt called "DEVIL_BABES". I made this booking for a SYT (from pictures provided in his website). I thought SYT referred to girls but what I got I was not even sure it was one. So I gave her S$50 and told her I was tired (so not to hurt its feeling) but she had to call its okt who shouted at me and insisted that no cancellation is allowed. There was no way I was gonna do with someone whom I was not even sure what its sex was. So I offered to just pay and go but the abuse on the phone was just too much. I think we should expose these okts who altered the picture so much it is cheating.
The other time I made a booking with porn appetit and had to cancel because of some urgent matters. Upon receiving my sms the damn okt called and started screaming his head off. I offered to pay for the cancellation in full the next time i used his service. But he kept wanting to know exactly when in a very aggressive and threatening manner. I had to eventually turned off the phone as he kept calling.
Well for me, these 2 okts should be boycotted for life. I suggest brothers should be careful with the okts they use lest u get into very unpleasant situation.

[jameseah]

20 should be find.normally its 20.just for thier transport

[bell152]

Just tell them nicely they are not the types you are looking for

they will accept one. pay them some transport fees lor.


cheers,

[xtremsproz]

Haiz.........

Someone ask this before.....

http://www.sbfsg.org/welcome...ml#post3004702

[Private88]

Bro Jackie666, well; your 2 incidents were indeed terrible experience, maybe the first one is more relevant to my past experience.

I don't think the 2 brothers that provided the contact no. are OKT (at least they claimed in their FRs). However, seriously I have doubts in their definition of SYT and rating. Both were rated as 7 or 7.5/10 and high KC power blah blah blah... when they came to my room, WOW; KNN, at least over 30 yrs old of PRC village Ah-Soh, not only they look like one, but talk like one too, totally HOPELESS !

To be frank, such quality of FLs will not even be allowed to work in any KTV or Sauna outlets in China (not even working as a cleaner, I supposed), hence, they choose to fly over to SG to make a living. I was very unhappy during the sessions and choose to just keep quiet and let it over. I didn't write any FR on these 2 experiences as there seems to be a group of brothers on SBF enjoying their service and post "good" FRs to promote them aggressively...

Money is not a big matter for many of us here, however, in life we don't just go out and look for ANY bonk out of our busy work schedule. A lousy bonk will leave some unpleasant memory that is un-necessary and those money spent could well be donated to charity...

In short, to all brothers out there to promote your chicks, please be honest and truthful in the rating and introduction, over rated chicks will likely to get only 1-time client and no repeated order...

To all innocent brothers that are looking for good quality bonk, please exercise prudent judgment when reading the FRs, would need to X50% on every rating in order to play safe...

Originally Posted by jackie666

I have had couple of very bad experience recently with okt. One was with this okt called "DEVIL_BABES". I made this booking for a SYT (from pictures provided in his website). I thought SYT referred to girls but what I got I was not even sure it was one. So I gave her S$50 and told her I was tired (so not to hurt its feeling) but she had to call its okt who shouted at me and insisted that no cancellation is allowed. There was no way I was gonna do with someone whom I was not even sure what its sex was. So I offered to just pay and go but the abuse on the phone was just too much. I think we should expose these okts who altered the picture so much it is cheating.
The other time I made a booking with porn appetit and had to cancel because of some urgent matters. Upon receiving my sms the damn okt called and started screaming his head off. I offered to pay for the cancellation in full the next time i used his service. But he kept wanting to know exactly when in a very aggressive and threatening manner. I had to eventually turned off the phone as he kept calling.
Well for me, these 2 okts should be boycotted for life. I suggest brothers should be careful with the okts they use lest u get into very unpleasant situation.

[longwinter]

so far l haven reject any FL before..to me as long as the FL is not too ugly, at least must have a average look, l am fine with it.

But one thing that irriates me is sumtime l see FRs here claiming how good the girl is, how good her services is and etc..but than when l go over there, no such services.