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I have met this Viet ktv girl and we kinda get along together very well. I am attached but not married. Owns a company but not exactly rich. Just above average. Well, she have no idea about this because I told her I am just an employee. I understand that a lot of ktv girls are out for money. The thing which puzzles me is that she refuse my money when I give her. Tips for ktv session, she refuse. Am aware she needed some cash to send back home, pass her the money, she refuse to take as well.
refuse small amounts like tips. as you are drawn deeper, she knows more of you, slowly will ask. when u give once, she will try again and again.
its a matter of time before she knows of your gf or vice versa. end up lose both ends. gf unlikely to ask for 'compensation'. but this girl might just show up at your office etc and stir shit. beware...either way, $$ solves the problem. but how many times can you do it?
This is a possible scenario.
She refuse tips and whatever smaller amounts of money you give her, you start to like her more because of this, start to see her more often and then develop a r/s either serious or not.
By this point, then you'd surely go back to vietnam with her (this happens to any bros with gals from any country), then this is when you start spending money out of necessity.
Remember this, a foreign bride is not drama free and cheap (monetary wise), apart from the frequent trips, you'd also have to spend a small fortune for her family back home.
In the unlikely event that you guys get married, certainly you'd want her to quit night life, then how will she find a job for income?
This is a common issue for a lot of bros, unless their single income can suffice as sole bread winner or in your case she can work for you.
Then in future she says that she wants to go back once a month, how are you going to cope with it, time and money wise?
Are you going to say yes or no to her following requests?
Need to buy land at home.
Need to buy/build a new house.
Need to buy new car/bikes.
Need to buy new electrical appliances.
Need to send money home often.
Her family wants to come over for a few weeks to a month, cannot be stay hotel for so many days; stay with you can you put up with it?
Her bro/sis/cousin/friend wants to come SG, ask you to arrange a job for them, how?
Her bro/sis needs money for education, laptop, mobile phones, etc. how?
Her father/mother needs money for medical care, business, repay loans, etc. how?
The list can go on and on, so its better you ask at least 5 people with foreign brides before you consider going any further to be serious with her.
My advise is to do what you can with her and move on, a club is not a place to find a gf/wife.
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This is a possible scenario.
She refuse tips and whatever smaller amounts of money you give her, you start to like her more because of this, start to see her more often and then develop a r/s either serious or not.
By this point, then you'd surely go back to vietnam with her (this happens to any bros with gals from any country), then this is when you start spending money out of necessity.
Remember this, a foreign bride is not drama free and cheap (monetary wise), apart from the frequent trips, you'd also have to spend a small fortune for her family back home.
In the unlikely event that you guys get married, certainly you'd want her to quit night life, then how will she find a job for income?
This is a common issue for a lot of bros, u?unless their single income can suffice as sole bread winner or in your case she can work for you.
Then in future she says that she wants to go back once a month, how are you going to cope with it, time and money wise?
Are you going to say yes or no to her following requests?
Need to buy land at home.
Need to buy/build a new house.
Need to buy new car/bikes.
Need to buy new electrical appliances.
Need to send money home often.
Her family wants to come over for a few weeks to a month, cannot be stay hotel for so many days; stay with you can you put up with it?
Her bro/sis/cousin/friend wants to come SG, ask you to arrange a job for them, how?
Her bro/sis needs money for education, laptop, mobile phones, etc. how?
Her father/mother needs money for medical care, business, repay loans, etc. how?
The list can go on and on, so its better you ask at least 5 people with foreign brides before you consider going any further to be serious with her.
My advise is to do what you can with her and move on, a club is not a place to find a gf/wife.
Really experienced talk. Really a lots of complications involve if u get serious with her & wan her to be your wife. The marriage not only between u & her but also her whole family, unless u r a wealthy man can feed her & her whole family. She will definitely not going to forsake her family jZ to be with u.
True, it is not a place for u to look for spouse. For fling is OK, other more than that u take your own risk.
Dun think all these kampung gals r so simple as their look, dun belittle them, they r more cunning & scheming than most of us here.
Am certainly not going into any long term r/s with her. Ain't going to risk my life over here for her either. The cons outweighs the pros. Even I can fully support her without her working , eventually I guess it will be just an added pressure on my shoulder. Well, she is going back in like less than 2 months. Guess I just see how it goes.
Are you going to say yes or no to her following requests?
Need to buy land at home.
Need to buy/build a new house.
Need to buy new car/bikes.
Need to buy new electrical appliances.
Need to send money home often.
Her family wants to come over for a few weeks to a month, cannot be stay hotel for so many days; stay with you can you put up with it?
Her bro/sis/cousin/friend wants to come SG, ask you to arrange a job for them, how?
Her bro/sis needs money for education, laptop, mobile phones, etc. how?
Her father/mother needs money for medical care, business, repay loans, etc. how?
The list can go on and on, so its better you ask at least 5 people with foreign brides before you consider going any further to be serious with her.
My advise is to do what you can with her and move on, a club is not a place to find a gf/wife.
Everything concerns money...you gonna feed the cow until she is old lets say 80s or 90s years old....lifetime liability. There is no guarantee that she will stick to you too.
Am certainly not going into any long term r/s with her. Ain't going to risk my life over here for her either. The cons outweighs the pros. Even I can fully support her without her working , eventually I guess it will be just an added pressure on my shoulder. Well, she is going back in like less than 2 months. Guess I just see how it goes.
Bro, is the Viet KTV girl working around upper weld road?