Lesson learned.

[Laofuzi8888]

My advice is to find about 3 suitable regulars and rotate them around. Don’t stick to just one. They may disappoint you. Once they earn enough their attitude change. In addition just treat it as commercial relationship.

[madmax8888]

Originally Posted by chongboonkid

consolation is I m not the only one kena this type treatment. at first I though become her regular she will give better treatment or service but i m damn wrong
bro, care to share the black shop?
mine was Anna at Win Spa, then she move to Ali Spa, now she at Spa188 tg katong

Oops , like that. Very cheerful vibes but all for show ah. Visited her at 188 recently. Decent massage.

[mm88617]

Yeah being cheat by end early at one of the east shop as well recently although the whole season is good and nice but just don’t like the feeling

[backache]

Happened to me too and i also learnt. Like most have mentioned, never give them the impression that they are the only ones and let them know we have options .

ML will typically ask how often you go massage for obvious reasons. During conversation whenever they ask me how come so long never visit them, i just say that i am doing my rounds to support those who are good more often. Some get the hint and keep up the standard.

Previously i had a regular ML and after awhile always cut 15 mins of my time. When i visit the next time, that ML thought i will ask for her since she is available at the counter and i ask for her colleague instead. Her colleague knew i was her regular and during massage ask me to look for her in future and i never look back. No need to feel obliged to the ML as they see us as transaction.

[farie]

My ML found my weakness ar. I'm a sucker for gao gao gfe. Got hooked and keep coming back for more. I can't name the shop cos i know the lady boss well. Can only say it's a small shop in the north east area.

[afterburn]

Originally Posted by backache

Happened to me too and i also learnt. Like most have mentioned, never give them the impression that they are the only ones and let them know we have options .

ML will typically ask how often you go massage for obvious reasons. During conversation whenever they ask me how come so long never visit them

Any ML that would think you only visit her and never tried others or other shops - is a rather dumb or naive ML.

[LLSG]

It's a delicate balance between "repeating a good experience" and "fuck & forget"... Repeating something good can get boring, and the issue described can happen...

[GN007SG]

kena too many times
in any case, most of the girls wont stay in SG forever
旧的不去新的不来
just move on to the next better player

[prancer]

i read the experiences here n i am really glad i m not alone in this... i feel very much cheated of my emotions, to knw these ladies r only in it for the money. like someone said its all a transaction and nothing more.

[garagez]

Many ML have similiar attitude ,
One way we can visit same shop and ask for another ML, just to pissed her off
If OWO just ignore it , walk around venture new place

Happy mind makes a healthy dick

[asdfghjk1234]

Yes, i encountered ML who took you for granted after a few visits. cut short the time, half past 6 massage etc. we are the boss, we can always find new one. there are tone out there want our money. haha. anyway think Malaysian attitude is better compare to PRC.

[candeo_88]

Just don't think that only us can be sick and tired of ML's after some time...They are also entitled to be sick and tired of us after some time...

I am sure some bro's here have been ignored or "pulled black" by ML's eventhough nothing wrong was done, right?

It's business after all...they everyday eat German frankfurther, once a while must eat Taiwanese sausage yes?

[Heartlandlover]

When we received messages like.

I miss u. Do u miss me. Wana come find me? Hope can see u soon. If I am bz later I might not have the opportunity to see you today. U come over?


Translate to real meaning.
I miss ur money. Come here and give me your money. U come now.

Try to ask her out every alternate day after work hrs without gng to massage. Text her everyday chit chat with her. Go for stroll at Park. Heart to heart talk. If she willing to do that and have nothing in return. Maybe can be good friends. Else just service provider and consumer.

[Laofuzi8888]

Originally Posted by Heartlandlover

When we received messages like.

I miss u. Do u miss me. Wana come find me? Hope can see u soon. If I am bz later I might not have the opportunity to see you today. U come over?


Translate to real meaning.
I miss ur money. Come here and give me your money. U come now.

Try to ask her out every alternate day after work hrs without gng to massage. Text her everyday chit chat with her. Go for stroll at Park. Heart to heart talk. If she willing to do that and have nothing in return. Maybe can be good friends. Else just service provider and consumer.

Well said bro.

[hoosdathu]

Originally Posted by Heartlandlover

If she willing to do that and have nothing in return. Maybe can be good friends. Else just service provider and consumer.

kee chiu agree