Need advice, married but under SEX...

[GoYa]

Originally Posted by MrGreen

GoYa - Yes, I am the head of the family, I do strategic decision at home. But I cannot tell her: "Take off your cloth, I wana make love now". Doesn't work that way.

Your wife's reluctance to have any other than the most basic of sex with you and with the minimal number of times possible has been passively reinforced with your lacklustre insistence over the period you are married. And that is like 15-20 years ?

IMHO, don't think there is much that can be done given that it is already ingrained into her. You can still go give the old school try with advice given by bros here.

René Descartes said - I think, therefore I am.

Not really true. I think and like to think I have a 12 inch dangling majestic orgasm inducer rod, but just because I think so doesn't make it true.

Still 10 inches short

[S.B.Y]

Originally Posted by dirtyhairy

Wow..Pak P bisah dong...sudah 63, ...boleh panjat lagi
which is why age is no hindrance to a horny didi
like you Pak P, aku Laobaby DirtyHairy at 70 am still going strong
and I am not surprised that you can cause yours to salute in your sarong,
even without viagra, chialis, tongkat ali..ahhh the wonders of eating lontong!

Pak P songkok off to you Mas (bro) dirtyhairy aka Callahand.

You do have a Magnum down there .

Pak P wonder if sarong still can salute at 70

[MrGreen]

porscheclub - Haha, have to agree with you on the public toilet theory. (Think only, doesn't mean I will do it) But Think about it... Whore BJ, BBBJ (with CIM), CatBath, Rim Ass, Suck Toe. In the end, many bros too have Deep tongued them. contradicting right

Goya - My friends have the same sentiment. They say f I were to go to "THESE" place, it is a must to go with them. They can pull hand brake if I go over board (feel wise). Fling wise, no need worry, unless woman throw themselves at me. Just to mention I am not Liu DeHua and $$$ is tight, so feed mistress is totally out, Unless she feeds me

OK, guys I'll go massage (other alternative, no more WanYang) with JG (or BJ) service. Or I can hold $50 in one hand, PPC with the other, CUM liao still have $50, hahahah!

[groo]

Originally Posted by MrGreen

...married 10yrs+ with 2 kids, I love my wife alot. She is my first GF and I am her first BF. She is everything I desired!...Best of all, she is down to earth, very thrifty, No makeup (natural beauty), expensive purse, bags, accessories or apparels! Wah Lau eh, where to find!...very conservative women...

Hi Bro-MrGreen, seems like we are similar in several aspects regarding the wifey but I'm luckier as my wife still enjoys sex although she's also quite conservative - no bbbj, mostly missionary only.

However, bro-Xgenre has offered good advice. You have also tried talking to your wife about going GL and I'm sure you can experiment a bit. Some wives actually keep 1 eye closed about their husbands playing outside provided it's just play-play only. So it's strictly for sex, don't get involved in KC games and get yourself in a mess and harm the family.

Some people are lucky they met up with great FB, maybe like bro-DYBJ. I met with one too, about 1-1/2 years back and still going strong. She loves sex, gives good bbbj and don't mind CIM, loves trying out new positions and we make out once every 2-3 days, sometimes everyday for a stretch over several days. We have overnight sessions too, although rarely. Other than that, she can't be bothered about KC-ing me as we've both trashed out this issue many times.

All that sex seems to have led to other benefits... trying new styles and having a laugh when they don't work out, enjoying our sex, knowing what positions are great for us and letting us improve our techniques. My little dicky also seems to have grown stronger and slightly longer. Maybe it's my imagination... Bwahahahahahahahahaha!!!

Hope my 2 cents worth has given you some food for thought.

Cheers!

[KittyClub]

Talk to her, seriously talk to her coz she is the source of your sex problem. If you play outside too much, two of you will grow further away.

[squiggle]

TS, since your wife prefer missionary. Then you maybe can try other versions of missionary. Like the legs up or something if possible so to hit the g-spot & you can go deeper. You can try to tell her this. Then is she happy with it. Things will get change from there.

[groo]

Frankly I dun think it's the problem with the sex you are having. For all you know, it could be she's really not into it and could be something from her past that's holding her back. I've also heard from a number of women who keep telling me that women dun need sex, it's the men who can't live without it!

Tread carefully, but once you can get her out of her shell, dun be surprised if she turns out to be a wild tigress!!! Bwahahahahahahahaha!!!

Cheers!

[MrGreen]

For the matter she is a tiger (born in 1974) as for the missionary leg high , low, medium... all tried. She still avoid Make Love session.

Some bro say talk to her about me going GL... She already very conservative, Tell her I go GL to release the beast in me. I digging my own grave?

After ranting about it, I feel better. Will try some good massage with JG. got few good contacts from here. If all should fail, Never mind, live with it. Maybe I can do without SEX too. I already have 2 mistresses named "Palmela" Left and right. they can give me rather good HJ session couple with my mind creative script writing.

[groo]

Originally Posted by MrGreen

...If all should fail, Never mind... Maybe I can do without SEX too. I already have 2 mistresses named "Palmela" ...can give me rather good HJ session ...

With names like "Palm-ela", I'm sure they are very skilful with their palms giving you great HJ - you are certainly in good hands! Bwahahahahahahahaha!!!

Cheers n have fun...

[redgun]

Originally Posted by MrGreen

For the matter she is a tiger (born in 1974) as for the missionary leg high , low, medium... all tried. She still avoid Make Love session.

36 years, her sex drive should be really like tiger now, so it is your problem lao ... try go some romantic place and be a gentleman/devilman/lover yourself

[MrGreen]

Maybe it is my fault, cannot arouse her fully. She becomes wet easily, I only need to tickle her a bit. Maybe I "Tickle Not Enough". I will try to tickle longer next time.

[buay_tahan]

Originally Posted by MrGreen

I already have 2 mistresses named "Palmela" Left and right. they can give me rather good HJ session couple with my mind creative script writing.

Bro...ur 2 mistresses should be good enuf. If not, maybe a few sessions wif some WL/FL may actually release...I also got similar problems...but had an affair which lasted 3 over yrs...this person knew I am married and didn't want to cause prob...had it good for 3 yrs wif fucking good bonks...like teenagers again. In car, in public toilet, out in the open on park bench, in a boat (those at East Coast beach), at workplace, her place...

But problem is all these gals say no problem at first, then become sticky. I had to peel myself away. It was hard, but she finally let go, and I know I was fucking lucky because she could have gone public and I would have lost everything. Yah, she made me feel like an Adonis, but too risky.

You may be like me then, hoping to score with someone...but don't. Very dangerous. I think WL/FL still safer cos no strings attached.

Of course, after it all ended, I thought I didn't need a bonk for the next 20 yrs...but I was wrong. Still horny. Also contacted Palmela a lot. Now join SBF looking for all the brothers' recommendations. We are men. We need to bonk. If wifey don't want, we bonk others. No guilt. Just can't play KC.

[orneryjoe]

In Catherine Hakim's new book: Honey, Money - The Power of Erotic Capital, she mentioned a phenomenon called the male sex deficit.

She asserts that many women over 30 aren't very interested in sex. But men over 30 remain as horny as ever. Below 30, there is a balance, so that's fine, more or less. Overall, the picture is that there are plenty of older men who end up frustrated and looking to have sex with anyone else but their wives.

You have sort of realised the only practical solution. I was in the same predicament as you. Been doing commercial sex for more than a year now, and I never enjoyed myself so much. All the lovely young women -- and each encounter is different. I never had so much sex so frequently! Am addicted now, but I don't care. My life has never been more fun than the past year. Doing the girls a favour too cos they are in it for the money.

Just play it safe by wearing condoms. But the girls will insist you do anyway. So long as you do, it's actually quite safe. Go ahead and enjoy. We have just one life to live, after all.

You know what? My wife don't miss the sex at all, and we get along just fine. Win-win-win solution all round -- for you, for the ladies, for the wife. Things are seldom this neat in the world.

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

You should have gathered by now that "true loves" aren't interested in sex.

a classic case:
http://www.singaporebrides.com/forum...tml?1316226816

[prccuntlover]

Originally Posted by arsenal_84

a classic case:
http://www.singaporebrides.com/forum...tml?1316226816

Sad..
Most men crave for sex
I never believe in married men ( but I single...haha) should seek pleasure outside but guess that's the norm?

Then again men need interaction, the intimate physical ones; when women married, they should at least played the part even if they don't feel like it
Women have every right not to oblige but in the circle of life, men need it so maybe just maybe men can seek to destress outside but not have emo..


Suggest TS go Hols with wife to rekindle the romance and sex