Ouch! That's very depressing. I'm not sure why such things take place. The husband is being treated very unfairly. Perhaps doing it the first time was a mistake, but if emotions are involved, cracks will appear.
I tried really hard to restrain myself. If I start, I'm afraid there will be other instances—second, third, and so on.
sometimes some of us are just very very broken. it takes another partner, equally broken, not so focused on self, to continue to endure together. me and my wife previously, also left right center affair at work and outside mutually, even though our sex was still so frequent and good, she still went back to an old indian lover to get analed... we even had to separate for a while for my health. not easy.
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sometimes some of us are just very very broken. it takes another partner, equally broken, not so focused on self, to continue to endure together. me and my wife previously, also left right center affair at work and outside mutually, even though our sex was still so frequent and good, she still went back to an old indian lover to get analed... we even had to separate for a while for my health. not easy.
sometimes some of us are just very very broken. it takes another partner, equally broken, not so focused on self, to continue to endure together. me and my wife previously, also left right center affair at work and outside mutually, even though our sex was still so frequent and good, she still went back to an old indian lover to get analed... we even had to separate for a while for my health. not easy.
sometimes some of us are just very very broken. it takes another partner, equally broken, not so focused on self, to continue to endure together. me and my wife previously, also left right center affair at work and outside mutually, even though our sex was still so frequent and good, she still went back to an old indian lover to get analed... we even had to separate for a while for my health. not easy.
Did your wife get back with her ex just because of anal? Or are you experiencing a collection of other problems, bro?
sometimes some of us are just very very broken. it takes another partner, equally broken, not so focused on self, to continue to endure together. me and my wife previously, also left right center affair at work and outside mutually, even though our sex was still so frequent and good, she still went back to an old indian lover to get analed... we even had to separate for a while for my health. not easy.
Maybe I'm old-fashioned but for me, if a woman cheats, it's not in her nature and it's very bad. I'll definitely leave her
Maybe I'm old-fashioned but for me, if a woman cheats, it's not in her nature and it's very bad. I'll definitely leave her
Occasionally, we have a tendency to make mistakes right then and there. Must we also ask our other half to forgive? My closest friend is simply dissatisfied with her spouse and vice versa. Both of them have their fair share of affairs outside. Uncertain how they manage to remain together for such a long time.
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Occasionally, we have a tendency to make mistakes right then and there. Must we also ask our other half to forgive? My closest friend is simply dissatisfied with her spouse and vice versa. Both of them have their fair share of affairs outside. Uncertain how they manage to remain together for such a long time.
Some factors, from my own personal life
- the comfort that the couple doesn't share with you, their ease of their situation which brings about the freedom
- the moments when they are together, it's not as bad as imagined, it works, just not enough, and both are ok.
- both are not determined to have that kind of textbook traditional couple life. the yearn is not naturally there, and they've not met another partner outside which wants that. In the first place, both aren't like that, so even if one does meet another like that, it'd be a natural deterrent
- both still can see a bit of hope in it. one day when the 'fun' runs out, at least, it's still not alone.
- both doesn't think they deserve a perfect life, just take what one can get. and at the moment, the current is even better than good.
Did your wife get back with her ex just because of anal? Or are you experiencing a collection of other problems, bro?
she didn't get back with him, more like, she'd make visits to him.
yes a whole lot of other problems which we worked through. she had trauma etc, combined with pride, it just spiralled a tornado which she could 'control'