Are our SG gals too pamerped??

[LeMans]

Hi All,

I was pondering for the past week that r our SG gals too overly pampered...
For my case, i felt so.. as I will share some shortpersonal experience. Anyway, this is not any sex or FR-related topic... so my apologies to all fellow samsters.

For my past 3 years, I worked hard n become a M&A manager n was involved with several short-term relationship after I ended a 2 year plus marathorn relationship with 1 of my cheating ex-gf (now a school IT trainer in a Secondary school in the East, happily married last year to a fucking credit card fat-asshole manager)... ok enough of my past... Well... fast forward: I was introdued to quite a number of pretty SYTs mainly from 18 to 25 by some of my gd kakis n sisters after I broke up...

Talking on the 1st date with this gal, (let's name her Vicky).... This gal was quite pretty, 23 years old (in 2007).... after the end of the date, i suggested to send her home from Centre-Point.... then she agreed.... next thing, i was supposed to head to the taxi stand.... then Vicky asked me what r we doing @ the taxi stand... I told her that we taking a cab to send her home... n next thing she replied me that she thought I was driving (I didn't told her I did drive??) Thus, after that date, whenever I tried to date her out... she just give me many excuses of busy.... n there goes my 1st SYT intro by my kaki...

Down to my 2nd SYT (name called Emily), this SYT was 21 (in 2007)... she was an easy catch n no doubt, I spare minimum effort to capture her in less than 6 weeks (erm... uncle liao... so cannot as gung-ho as those young 16 or 17 teenagers to be super ON in romance).... Little did I know that after we enter into this relationship... she was like treating me like an ATM.... 1st shopping trip.... she managed to get a Coach handbag, ard $450, but of course... she also did repay me in another form (a gd weekend of sex)... that was not the $$$$$ factor... but my nightmare was just the beginning... slowly during the 2 months relationship, she can easily just ask me keep buying either branded stuff for her or her friends, saying birthday reason.... n that short 2 months... cost me a total $6k.... wahz... these days SYTs really know how to spend uncle's $$$$...... LOL...

Then came the 3rd SYT (let's call her Amy), this SYT was 24 (in 2008), she was at 1st glance, nothing to shout abt... but 1 thing attracted me was her innocence.... n she can cook damn well.... so no complains... but the nightmare came only when after we together for 3 months, then she started popping up the Car factor question..... always comparing me n her colleagues' bfs who own car @ 25 or 26... driving BMWs or AUDIs...... well... Not say I can't afford all this luxury cars... but my job nature requires me to travel almost 70% of my time....even now I only managed to go back for 3 rounds of ICTs only out of this past 8 years after I ORD.... so after all this quarreling... we broke up.....

Then for the bulk of 2009, I was posted to NY for almost 9 months... n last Nov, I was finally convinced to buy a car by my buddies (due to the SG gals materialistic car factor ideaism)... N I got myself a BMW 335i (nothing to shout abt)..... Well.... last Dec X'mas.... after I got my car for a month, I rang up the 1st SYT, Vicky, n invited her for an evening car-spinning... n she immediately just agreed.....So we met up @ her house n we head towards Changi Village..... When we reached Changi Village.... I told her to get off the car, giving excuses that I need her to see the rear of my car for me to my reversing.... But actually, I did the crude n ungentlemen way of zooming off her n left her along @ Changi Village.... n not long later.... I text her an sms... telling her that it serves as a retribution for being too materialistic, bitch.....

Down to last Saturday nite, I was @ Jalan Besar having supper with my Kakis... I saw my 3rd SYT, Amy, I went up to say hello to her... she was damn arrogrant n ignored my greetings to her... so I LPPL n walk back to my table n continue eating with my kaki... then 1 of my kaki suggested to me to get back @ her.... By driving my car right in front of her when she is supposed to leave..... n then play a gentleman by offering her a ride home... n thus do the same old trick by leaving her in the middle of the expressway..... As we were going to finish our supper, n also Amy was abt to finish her supper with her friends... i quickly go n collect my car n drive to the shop to wait for her to come out of the restaurant...n unwind my window n ask her whether she wanna get a free ride from me?? I thought she will keep her arrogrant LJ CB face n ignore me agian... But to my surprise... she replied ok.... Along the trip to her place... i was intending to execute my move of alighting her in the middle of the expressway..... little did I know that I gotta put over the road shoulder as she was giving my small head a gentle grip on it..... shit this slut...... she knew my weak-point... n not longer later... she gave me a BJ right in my car n allow me to CIM as I told her I don't wanna dirty my new car..... after that, I sent her home.... she offered me to stay over-nite, which I initially wanted to agree to her invitation... but I restraint myself as I want to maintain my value since now I started to own a nice car..... n thus no point being so desparate to fall into a SG gal trap....
N this past week, Amy had been either calling me up for dinner or smsing me sweet little gd nite sms (which she won't do at all in the past)... yet... I will kindly reject her date saying busy.... or reply her just a short gd nite.... LOL... but wait till this coming weekend... N I may be coming up with a gd paln to screw the hell out of this materialitic SG gal.....

Well... after my 3 short encounters... any brudders her any comment?? Pls feel free to do so...

[nosealedfate]

Originally Posted by LeMans

When we reached Changi Village.... I told her to get off the car, giving excuses that I need her to see the rear of my car for me to my reversing.... But actually, I did the crude n ungentlemen way of zooming off her n left her along @ Changi Village.... n not long later.... I text her an sms... telling her that it serves as a retribution for being too materialistic, bitch.....

Well done! I like that.

Some would say that the girls here do not know where their position and status in the world.

Some would say that it's the Singapore's system that made the people as such.


There are so many angles...

[phantomboyz]

I can only say that not all the sg gals are materialistic. Usually what i understand bout local girl mindsetting, she could mark ur financial ability on her first glance at the way u groom up urself. This happened to me when i dated my ex from NY Poly in 2002. I was juz bought my CBR 1000 then.Stupid me wanted to show off during our first date,proudly told her that i bought it in cash,somemore bring her to have dinner at Hyatt Hotel. She acted quite innocent that day,so end up i sent her home. Nightmare only begin after our 2nd date. I managed to bring her my bungalow ( of coz not mine, but i was staying with my parents that time ) , that was our first sex. Hell song,coz she juz 17 leh dude. Thought can pakai her,but then she damanding me to bring her to makan at cosy restaurants whenever we go out.Somemore whenever i withdraw money at ATM,she sure wld stick with me closely. I dumbed her after she told me that her ex-bf wooing her back. Then came this next gal also end up be my ex gf. She was stockist manager for some health product. She had fancy to tour Orchard area in the middle of the nite on my bike. Though later we did slept together quite frequent,but she never ask me to buy anything for her,instead she would buy for us whenever we go out for lunch/dinner. Suprisingly her taste is juz have a quick bite at neighbourhood food court and company her parents at NTUC club ( also in 2002 ). We end up broke up after one day i expressed my feelings to her that i feel uncomfortable when everytime she was the one who footed the bills whenver we had meals or shopping.
So i guess,that was ur luck ba.next time try to wear simple and non branded attires during ur first meeting,from there u able to guess whether that gal is materialistic or simply humble type. If she is,she wld juz borchap u later whenever u call. atleast save ur pocket.

[ddog]

Way too pampered. The current girl I'm out with only wants to eat at expensive restaurants. To top that, she herself is penniless but expects me to pay for her everything, including her dresses and overmidnight fares. Spent like 12k or more in a few months on goods electronics, etc on her.

And right now I'm telling her to save a bit keep telling her I don't have that much anymore. She still persist with this lifestyle. Right now she's pissed at me for picking at the things we spent tonite, I'm really pissed right now too. Pissed at me for talking about money. Fine...

I think sg gals like these should be thrown in the garbage can.

[HCKing]

but sg guys love to pamper them leh. hw ah?

[edgar_ee]

most sg girls are materialistic in the sense that they expect the guy to pay for them if they are officially going out on a date. that is y i feel that girls will always go for older guys since older guys have the financial power. i realise it is quite hard to find a gf who is the same age, especially if you are schooling and she is already in the workforce. to sum it up, like what my ex classmate told me, local girls are not being materialistic, they are being realistic. -.-

[phantomboyz]

Last time i used to make friend with some tomboys.Of coz different people,different timing lah. Juz purely friendship,no hanky panky one. Even they always said.only guys shld buy drinks for gals,coz that shows how gentleman he is.

[joew2005]

Yes,they r .

[simple2kee]

Originally Posted by LeMans

Amy had been either calling me up for dinner or smsing me sweet little gd nite sms (which she won't do at all in the past)... yet... I will kindly reject her date saying busy.... or reply her just a short gd nite.... LOL... but wait till this coming weekend... N I may be coming up with a gd plan to screw the hell out of this materialitic SG gal.....

TS, well done! they deserved it. but not all r materialitic. looking forward to hear more of ur next move.

[Lsy84]

Bros, well I hate to say this, but majority of Singapore girls are like this. (Esp the young ones...they think that money is everything.) In comparison, the older and more matured girls aren't like this. (That's why I prefer older women than younger ones).

Well Bro LeMans, you might also want to consider looking across the causeway to look for the right girl, as I heard that Malaysian Girls are indeed better than our made in singapore local girls in this area.

[Sensory Sniper]

Totally agree with you bro. They're really too down right pampered. Think their CB made of gold.... but then again. There are a rare minority.

[Tanoto]

well bro

let me relate my current experience with a gal i;

met this girl last year april 09 and went steady. she is from our next door neighbour and has became a PR for the last 9yrs staying in spore.

initially , she was sweet and very considerate about my spending. since she is living in a rented apt , i suggested to her moving into my apartment ( Big Mistake ). she move in in sept 09 which hell started.

from day 1 we started our r/s and moved into my apt, i have only gotton these from her;
1 ) 01 x dinner treat ( my birthday )
2 ) 01 x peanut butter
3 ) 01 x wallet ( xmas gift )

whereas from my expenses;
1 ) past 10 months daily dinner and meals at expensive restuarant.
2 ) all living expenses in my house including drinks, food , PUB,everything.
3 ) 03 x burberry bags
4 ) 01 x Gucci bag
5 ) 01 x new ladies golf set & shoe

the fact is even she stays in my house , she will never replenish any drinks / food. She would just buy her own and not for our consumption.
she claims to be a simple girl but fancy luxury items at every instant we are in orchard. Does not want to even take a 5min ride on my company van but rather to sit in my BMW.
Even when she goes back to her hometown , gifts and transport expenses expect me to pay.

is it just sporean girl or PR included in this discussion?

is it that girl is not just materialistics but selfish and self centred and thinking that a guy must be a carrot head when they got into a R/S ?

are we guys to blame for making those girls behave in this way ? coz i know of some of my GF Ex-BF who is a carrot head and even some of my friends who is.

your opinion please

[Cheonging101]

Originally Posted by HCKing

but sg guys love to pamper them leh. hw ah?

That's why we need more people like bro TS.

[jayson]

Bros,

Just my 2 cents worth, I think that as man we should always take time to know the target first. Some gals are just mend for screws and some are mend for keep. I have a couple of gfs in s'pore and overseas where I am working, all boils down to how you know her and how you approached her.

I believed that the ladies has the right to choose a better and wealthier guy, to provide and look after them. This is what they call 'security'. Which I am fine with.

If they are out for money, I would take it as a challenge to bed them at the lowest possible cost. It is a way to show my superiority. ie. spent 1.5k on her make sure I screw her at least 10 times same cost as geylang 150cat. If you want to break up at least got R.O.I.

My past fling was such, I was an idiot and spent 6k on gifts not including food, in 2 weeks on a girl, end up beded her only 8 times... when we break off I suffer huge losses thus I always make it a point that I must screw first talk later....

If they are mend to keep, I would never buy expensive things or show off to her my own wealth and be myself.

[Orgasmic]

the most bastard thing I did to a bitch was to park my vehicle at the ulu dark secluded carpark at the seletar reservior, the one with a tower..

and I asked her to alight as she was so arrogant when she talked. get her to bj and she say i treat her no good and blah blah.. this is after i treat her dinner at a posh resturant worth S$200+ for 2 pax. Then started to talk about going shopping want me buy branded for her at Orchard and not wasting time in a dark carpark

Bloody hell made me angry so I get her to alight and call up another fb to meet up. After 5 minutes on the phone, I drove out of the dark carpark towards the little road leading to the main road ( main road also very ulu )

halfway out i saw her walking angrily to the main road and i simply ZOOMED away into the main road, ignoring her.

What a bitch