Want to go for bonks,but scared

[Perturabo]

Hello bros
I have only tried bonking once in HK, and it was a horrible experience for me.not only because the sex was bad it also gave me this guilty feeling and anxiety,i thought that i may get std even if i use condom.I'm very horny to try some europeans or kimchi FL atm,i also wanted to try BBBJ xperience and painting cause the first bonk is just missionary and go (bad service). Any advice here bros? I'm scared if i go bonking i could get the guilty feeling afterwards or worse HIV.

[Big Sexy]

go get yourself a wife

Originally Posted by Perturabo

Any advice here bros? .

[curryface]

I know the feeling. I'm in a sexless marriage, over 2-3 years no sex and I'm still pretty young. Looking at internet porn was fine for a little while, but when you see those women and start imagining tits that you've never seen before, and all the pervert thoughts start racing in... then you ask and learn it's not so expensive that it's out of reach for regular guys like us... then one day you say fuck it, I'm going to go and do this and enjoy it.

Well,... then a week later your balls start itching. You start coughing, and you see all this white stuff on your tongue. Maybe your dick starts coughing out yellow and green shit that smells. You think, oh shit oh shit oh shit, what is this? You never see it before. That's where it starts. You find yourself on sites like this asking questions about risk. You think, I wore the condom, it did not break, I only licked her pussy and sucked her tits. Then 5-6 months later, after you discover you did not catch HIV and/or maybe you did or did not catch herpes and your dick is covered in red blisters like a burnt homeless mans face... you see those testing medical bills and think, I wish I never did any of that and had $2-3,000 that I wasted on all that testing to spend on something I really wanted. Instead, you scar your mind for life and fuck up your brain and feel guilt forever.

If you're posting to the sex health thread here, then this is my recommendation to not go near paid sex. If you did it once and walked away without bringing any STD home, then I recommend just keep that as a fun memory and never go near it again.

[CalixtusAW]

Originally Posted by Perturabo

Hello bros
I have only tried bonking once in HK, and it was a horrible experience for me.not only because the sex was bad it also gave me this guilty feeling and anxiety,i thought that i may get std even if i use condom.I'm very horny to try some europeans or kimchi FL atm,i also wanted to try BBBJ xperience and painting cause the first bonk is just missionary and go (bad service). Any advice here bros? I'm scared if i go bonking i could get the guilty feeling afterwards or worse HIV.

Iron within, Iron without!!!

I know your feeling... Tried alr but damn scared now. So I will swear off this itchy feeling...

[Perturabo]

Originally Posted by CalixtusAW

Iron within, Iron without!!!

I know your feeling... Tried alr but damn scared now. So I will swear off this itchy feeling...

My god,someone who nows 40k!

But the problem bro,is that im curious on trying european or some kimchi.😂

[sammyboyfor]

Just download some porn and wank yourself silly. Problem solved.

[Perturabo]

Still itchy after fappijg though,anymore advices?

[Luger]

Take my advice along with Sam and curryface. Don't start.

If you're still itchy after a fap session:
1) find a hobby to distract yourself with (video games, crafts, running)
2) fap another out, and know that this is the exact same feeling you'll get whether it's by your hand or through a WL
3) seek psychological help

Dwelling on trying to fix the issue most often aggravates it. Best to distract yourself from such thoughts.

Plus, a bonus if you stay away from WLs: your 'first-times' with your GF/Wife are going to be a lot more memorable and exciting.

[peanut123]

Or, you could, you know, just use a condom, only patronize legal WLs, avoid BBBJ and never paint her pussy. You get the release you crave, and still be pretty safe.

Originally Posted by curryface

If you did it once and walked away without bringing any STD home, then I recommend just keep that as a fun memory and never go near it again.

[peanut123]

Fapping only satisfies a man for a few hours or even minutes. Within a short while, you are itching for release again. The only way to fix this is to bang a real woman. And if you wanna do it, see my advice in my previous post.

Originally Posted by Perturabo

Still itchy after fappijg though,anymore advices?

[doomday123]

Get a masturbator, DIY while watching porn......................

[DoctorTan]

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