How to land a lady on bed.

[skyline07]

Saying some of my experience of how to land a lady with 80% succeed rate.

As different ladies have different characters, you can never use one technic to attack all ladies.

In a club will be the easiest. As you know when you are in a club, first impression is the most important. That's why, make sure you dress yourself good enough. what do I mean by it? Before you leave your home, look at the mirror, look at yourself, do you feel handsome? If you can tell yourself that you have the charismatic today, you win half the battle.

When arrive at the club, always remember to be confident of yourself. Always leave a slight smile on your face, be charismatic. Warning: Just a slightest smile, if not people might think you are crazy.

Next when in the club, it will be good to have a few drinks to add extra boldness into you. Do some recce while holding yr drinks, walk around. This will be a good chance to see if which girl is interested tonight. Do a surface recce first. Remember which lady caught your eye.

Go back to the lady that gave you the best impression. Try to stand somewhere near to her, but not too near. While chatting your friend, act as if yo are looking around sometimes, try to get hold of her eye contact. Always remember keep your smile and charismatic there, if you do, normally ladies will look at you before you notice them. As many knows, many ladies also go to club for guys too, not only us.

[Knick]

Wahhhh you very experienced dude!!! So whats your success rate like? can post some pics of your CONQUESTS boh?

[skyline07]

After like 20 minutes and you can't get hold of the eye contact by the lady you interested, proceed on to find the second one.

Assume, if you happen to get hold of the eye contacts. Do not waste too much time on just doing eyes contact. If you have some decent eyes contacts for about 10-15 minutes. Proceed up to her confidently. Never Ask: "May I be your friends?" 50% of the answer is no unless she is damn interested in landing you tonight.

As for pick ups lines, there are plenty. You may just say:" Nice to meet you", lift up your hand and request for a shake. Normally, she will shake your hand and always remember that smile and confident look. Next step, strike a conversation with her. Asking her how old is she will be damn boring, try asking what she studies as, work as, this method can spike up some interesting topics around her.

After some chats, treats her for a drink. Here is to make her high and not drunk as you still wants to enjoy your night with her. Do drink some too, if you are perfectly sober.

[skyline07]

After some drinks, ask her for a dance. In the beginning, you might be dancing from a group of people. Try to flank the rest of the group and dance with the lady you like. Make sure until this point, you have not ask her for her mobile number.

As music gets better, try to dance closer to her and see what's her respond. By accident that you touch her, say sorry if she resist. But if she doesn't try dance sexy with her. Hold her waist, shoulder, butt... By now you are 90% there.

Normally, If I reach this level, I will make a big risk, at one point of time, I will lean forward to her and give her a good french wet kiss. After this, you should know what to do.

If she does resist you when you get close to her, continue dancing and give that confident look into her eyes. Ask for her mobile, call your own mobile and say thanks. Normally, girls will like that naughty side of us and will be even more impress.

Others brothers with personal secrets can share here too. I will post others occassions when I amfree... Cheers, and enjoy your weekend.

[Derelict]

I see a flaw to the 'style' of your 1st approach. No offense meant to the threadstarter. Imagine if a short shifty looking looser with bad clothes combination was to use your method. Try he may but he will avail non of the beavy of gals that occupy the dance floor.

I have just generalize 25% of the singapore patron to such establishments.

Hmmm come to think of it. Its a minor flaw. Not really our problem. Carry on!

[skyline07]

Originally Posted by Derelict

I see a flaw to the 'style' of your 1st approach. No offense meant to the threadstarter. Imagine if a short shifty looking looser with bad clothes combination was to use your method. Try he may but he will avail non of the beavy of gals that occupy the dance floor.

I have just generalize 25% of the singapore patron to such establishments.

Hmmm come to think of it. Its a minor flaw. Not really our problem. Carry on!

No worries, we are meant to perfect out technic with comments.

I can only say, if you don't look ok, at least dress up a bit, it will gain some points. As there were this saying, why men don't listen and women can't read map. There is some truth in it.

Will be going to powerhouse & DF tonight, wish me luck.

[Derelict]

Luck lad, may you sweep the lady of your dream with your charming disposition (guile.. wink ).

Fair hunting!

[Loverboyz]

Maybe we can start a thread on Where is are the easiest club to hook gals.

[asdfghjkl]

actually got many such threads liao ler..

[Rw6828]

Sometimes, it depend at the right place, at the right time

[curiosityz]

good topic.. i wanna see how bros will give tips

[Regional]

Originally Posted by skyline07

Will be going to powerhouse & DF tonight, wish me luck.

haha,wish u best of luck and hopefully can see your fr/happening.

[Killien]

I've spent a fair amount of time in clubs having worked in one or another
over the years to pay for college tuition and shite. I'd like to think i know
a wee bit on the matter of pulling chicks.

And honestly? No offense. But when someone tells me that he's got an 80%
schtup/proposition success rate with the methods you've listed? I'd reckon
that he's embellishing just a little. That's just my opinion of course.

If y'all are interested in hearing me out i think i might have a few tips that
might improve your chance OR at least be entertaining enough to be a good laugh.

First, the basics of no-frills/gimmick-free/direct approach chick pulling:

1) First impressions matter. Here's where i totally agree with skyliner.. Before you rush out there to bag yourself some tail? Make sure you're as put together as you can possibly be without being too much of a fag about it.

2) Alcohol is your best friend only IF it's imbibed by members of the feminine persuasion. You're working on getting laid, not sloshed. A healthy buzz helps the inner fun-meister BUT dutch courage doesn't really help you in the testicular fortitude department. If you completely lack the cajones to go through with the direct walk-up to someone and pick'em up approach there are ways around it and downing more alcohol hoping to grow a fine pair? Ain't gonna help. Do not go overboard with the drinks, nurse em slowly.

3) Pulling chicks is a numbers game (in more ways than one but i'll get to that later). So never take rejection personally. It's their prerogative to keep their legs firmly together in spite of your devilish charm. Don't sweat it, move on. Someone's bound to say "yes" eventually, law of averages and what not.

4) Pickup lines only work on skanks, the inebriated and those that are interested and hence entirely willing in the first place. So unless you figure yourself to be sex appeal on legs with threads that scream "Money!"? Try
to stay away from the jokebook material and stick with something simple. Save the charm for AFTER she's decided not to offer you her customary "bugger off" speech.

5) Remember how i mentioned that it's all just a numbers game? Well here's the thing before you actually do you little song and dance number in front
of a lass you might wanna access your chances.

I recommend a desirability/eligibility scoring system where you rate yourself and your prospective target OBJECTIVELY. Base all scores entirely on look/packaging. Any wealth (if any) not plainly visible on your person only makes a difference when you get a chance to flash it around. Meaning that primo ride you've got park out front isn't gonna help you unless she's seen
you step outta it and fanning yourself with a wad of 50's is just plain vulgar.

Now.. Say you score yourself an objective 7? Girls that score a 6 or 7 are totally fair game and should be your primary targets. Try to hold off on those under a 6 till you're pretty sick of rejection OR the prospect of spending the night alone polishing your johnson looms a little too close for comfort.

Any chick with an 8 might be a stretch but still worth a shot IF going for her does not ruin your chances with equally schtup-able friend who's a 7. Geddit?

Any higher and you'd be wasting your time without some very special circumstance. I'll get into that later if this post actually generates any sort
of positive interest.

[werdnac]

Nice ...

Another thing to add to these, If the group of girls are mostly 8 and only 1 6-7, What i will do is go after the 6-7 one.. hehehe ... cause the 8s will be hit more by more peole and neglecting the 6-7.

So you will have more chance to ONS.. but if you prepared in advance to go home alone, go for the 8s..

Just to add something!!!

[skyline07]

No offense of course, I am just stating my fact.
Of course it will come up to how to choose the correct target and what respond from a lady to give you the assurance that they are interested. You will know it, when you had more experience.

I do agree that there are bound to be some suck up who will reject you even they look damn interested. But so what, move on.

I don't quite agree with the scoring system. If you do asked around your lady friends, you will be surprise that girls who score 5-6 will actually have twice the guys who approach compare with a lady who score 9 throughout their life, either in a club, on a street or even on a bus etc....

Thats the biggest problem my fellow Singaporean. We do not have the confident to walk up to any lady who's a 8, 9 or even 10? I had found out, it is easier to pick up a chick who is a 9 compare to a 7. Why?

The 7 may have like 6-8 guys approaching her during the night, but when you talk about the 9 (of course if she respond to you before you approach her), you might be the second guy or even not surprisingly, the only guy who approach. So coming back to the basic, 50% depend a lot on your charismatic and 30% depends on the respond of the lady to you. You get the correct signal, go for it !