sharing of how you convert yr fren to FB

[starystarynite]

I have a Tagged fren who seems to be a potential FB.

I knw she is looking for bf n is intetested in me.but I m only looking for FB. Not long term gf.

Any advise guys? How did u initiate your first sex with her? How do u know whether she is ok to b yr FB? Pls share yr experience? Also do u have the first sex then tell her that u only want FB relationship? Or u tell her everything b4 u go on further?

Pls share yr experience. Thx...

[Steven00son]

gals and guys dun work the same way.. so its better not to tell her "be my fb" right from the start.. rather, jio her out for a good night fun (hope both of u like to club and drink) and try to hav ONS with her.. that way after that if she is fine with being ur fb, den she will still meet u, if not, she will shy away..

u dun hav to put feelings in this rs if u wan to jus hav a fb. but mind u, gals treat this kind of issue a whole lot differently. they must somehow feel that they "like" the guy they hav sex with.. we, man, can separate sex and love... they can't.. its imbue in them.. so if u are successful in turning her to ur fb, be careful to keep the distance as well.. (unless she hav other FBss, hahaha..)

Jus my two cents worth, hope it helps..

[Aperture]

Very first step is to tell her that you are not looking for a relationship.

[Peter]

just go for makan & drinks, and if her mood is happy, ask her about her views about 'what you want in your mind' with her, hope this works for you

[Chanelfingers]

Look for right age group...
26 to 35 optimum
It's like wooing a Gf
Ask her out, movie company or ktv/drinking kaki, make sure she is comfy with u
Tell her things about ur ex and make her soft hearted for u
Then tell her u r not keen on anymore relationship, like dejected / gave up hope. Hate sticky Gf, clingy turn u off...

Advance : try to hold her hands/ stare in her eyes/ hug her or lean on her
She will get it that u liked he but dun scare of relationship
Say the right things " u r really pretty u know that?"

Bring her to quiet places
for heart to heart talk then start frenching her.
etc..Foreplay... If she horny and wants... Congrats
Most importantly, give her a good fuck, do beyond her expectations

She will come back for more.

[geckoSG]

very simple. If u are a REAL man. Tell her straight that you are seeking
fun only. Not seeking relationship.

Importantly, dun cheat a woman's feeling to get into her pants. I know
alot of guys out there does that and hurt the lady. Everyday on TAGGED,
I see all the women's comment on how guys cheat them, see the status
until sian...

So, be a man or be a cheater, its up to you. For me, I choose to be a man.
Hence, all the ladies that are willing be my lover and FBs knows what to
expect and we last long in our exclusive RS.

[thomastankuku]

Want to be player must have thick skin and strong heart and not scare tio bad karma. I not say tink its not wrong but got many bros also make use same tricks to get some piakpiak.

If not be upfront also can get FB one la. At least wont mindfuck or tio mindfuck. must find the right chabor only lor.

[starystarynite]

This is like making her my gf. I dun want that. I want a FB. Nt gf. It is a dangerous game if I dun play it right...

Is easy for me to hold her hands.n do whatever I like. I just dun want to cross the line too much until she mistaken that I want her as gf.

Originally Posted by Chanelfingers

Look for right age group...
26 to 35 optimum
It's like wooing a Gf
Ask her out, movie company or ktv/drinking kaki, make sure she is comfy with u
Tell her things about ur ex and make her soft hearted for u
Then tell her u r not keen on anymore relationship, like dejected / gave up hope. Hate sticky Gf, clingy turn u off...

Advance : try to hold her hands/ stare in her eyes/ hug her or lean on her
She will get it that u liked he but dun scare of relationship
Say the right things " u r really pretty u know that?"

Bring her to quiet places
for heart to heart talk then start frenching her.
etc..Foreplay... If she horny and wants... Congrats
Most importantly, give her a good fuck, do beyond her expectations

She will come back for more.

[starystarynite]

Ok. Thx for advice. So I have to be like a best fren to her. Dun commit anything or tell her wamt to pursue firthet.

Then somehoe create the right environment, rigjt timing to up her. After that, then clarify n make sure she understand my stand...

right? What wude u talking about..i kust eant to heaty nore they make the first move. What environment ppl create to make those frens of urs become FB willingly.

Originally Posted by fourhorseman

FB r/s can be potentially messy if not managed well. You already say she is your friend, and she is looking for a bf. Are you willing to sacrifice your friend, because there is no going back after you fuck her. you can't wish the fuck session away. So whether you be her fb or bf, you will lose a friend.

You don't want to tell her you are looking for a FB, which is against why you have FB in the first place. It should be upfront from the start that you do not want to commit into a relationship. Your position is like a best friend rather than bf. If you can't say it, don't go for it. as simple as that.

There is no conversion techniques, and even if have, bros here are not going to teach you either. cos you lack the "wu de" to learn the technques

[starystarynite]

if she likes me, thats it. Defeat the purpose of having a FB, isnt it?

FB cannot have personal emo in it. Just fuck n go. N may be chat abit. But both sides must draw the line clearly.


QUOTE=Steven00son;5903887]gals and guys dun work the same way.. so its better not to tell her "be my fb" right from the start.. rather, jio her out for a good night fun (hope both of u like to club and drink) and try to hav ONS with her.. that way after that if she is fine with being ur fb, den she will still meet u, if not, she will shy away..

u dun hav to put feelings in this rs if u wan to jus hav a fb. but mind u, gals treat this kind of issue a whole lot differently. they must somehow feel that they "like" the guy they hav sex with.. we, man, can separate sex and love... they can't.. its imbue in them.. so if u are successful in turning her to ur fb, be careful to keep the distance as well.. (unless she hav other FBss, hahaha..)

Jus my two cents worth, hope it helps.. [/QUOTE]

[Krazzie]

Originally Posted by geckoSG

very simple. If u are a REAL man. Tell her straight that you are seeking
fun only. Not seeking relationship.

Importantly, dun cheat a woman's feeling to get into her pants. I know
alot of guys out there does that and hurt the lady. Everyday on TAGGED,
I see all the women's comment on how guys cheat them, see the status
until sian...

So, be a man or be a cheater, its up to you. For me, I choose to be a man.
Hence, all the ladies that are willing be my lover and FBs knows what to
expect and we last long in our exclusive RS.

Totally agree with bro gecko, if she wants you as a bf and a stable relationship, then no way she will be your FB. Talk feelings in FB relationship is just looking for trouble, especially from lady's side they don't work like guys who can separate sex and feelings easily. Experienced couple of times, called off my FB relationship cause both sides feel going too deep liao need to get out of the hole.

So if you insist on wanting to be a FB so much, you have to cheat her heart lor like what bro Chanelfingers said...tell her you love her but just cannot be with her.... ladies are sucker for that, but it is very bad karma and seriously won't a willing lady be more fun then a lady you lied to get into bed?

[owl888]

TS u shd gain her trust first, then let nature takes its course. In this modren world there r many bf/gf who broke up after a while, most already have intimate rs. So its nothing really......sometimes its juz fated not to become bf/gf..........but juz fb

[starystarynite]

No. bad. I wont tell her I like her or lived her. If she gt the wrong msg, thats nt entirely my problem..right..

As for fb, I just let the feeling goes. She asked me ovr in msn why I nvr kiss hrr after 3 meet ups. Walao...i dun no...she sounds fake..but so.etimes real

I m bringing h er for a show n see how it goes.

Originally Posted by Krazzie

Totally agree with bro gecko, if she wants you as a bf and a stable relationship, then no way she will be your FB. Talk feelings in FB relationship is just looking for trouble, especially from lady's side they don't work like guys who can separate sex and feelings easily. Experienced couple of times, called off my FB relationship cause both sides feel going too deep liao need to get out of the hole.

So if you insist on wanting to be a FB so much, you have to cheat her heart lor like what bro Chanelfingers said...tell her you love her but just cannot be with her.... ladies are sucker for that, but it is very bad karma and seriously won't a willing lady be more fun then a lady you lied to get into bed?

[starystarynite]

Any quiet place I can do frenching n touching in the afternoon?except cinema..

[starystarynite]

Any quiet place I can do frenching n touching in the afternoon?except cinema..n hotel.