So much advice,me need it thanks

big wood · #1 16-12-2010, 09:50 PM

dear bro me is already 39 yrs old divorce(lucky no kid but spent alot of$$$ during divorce) had a lot of fun ,has cheong seems fire disco time till now, until now i dont know who can give me the life i want in love and what i want(as alot of up and down in life) , the only thing i know is my parent is getting old my duty as a son is give them what they want if i can affford before they go to another world;now my question to bro who answer and help the bro here with alot of problem, what is the best thing i should do for my next 20 years, by the way money and work is my problem and i has no issue with it shall not share it here cheers and tks

RealEstateGuy · #2 16-12-2010, 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by big wood

dear bro me is already 39 yrs old divorce(lucky no kid but spent alot of$$$ during divorce) had a lot of fun ,has cheong seems fire disco time till now, until now i dont know who can give me the life i want in love and what i want(as alot of up and down in life) , the only thing i know is my parent is getting old my duty as a son is give them what they want if i can affford before they go to another world;now my question to bro who answer and help the bro here with alot of problem, what is the best thing i should do for my next 20 years, by the way money and work is my problem and i has no issue with it shall not share it here cheers and tks

Take and English writing class. The way you write is not going to help your career.

jasdude · #3 16-12-2010, 11:19 PM

Equation is no work = no money = no honey = no family . since you know you what u lack and want in life , set your focus on them and put all other stuff aside etc cheonging .

so what are you asking for since you know what your problems are ? suggestions or lobangs for work and money ?

big wood · #4 16-12-2010, 11:48 PM

bro jasdude sorry maybe i never express in a correct way is not that i divorce i has no money i am not happy i just dont know when i want in life now ,as i has a girlfriend enough income is that i wonder what is the thing me want to do for the future seems like i missing something thanks

sun814 · #5 17-12-2010, 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by big wood

bro jasdude sorry maybe i never express in a correct way is not that i divorce i has no money i am not happy i just dont know when i want in life now ,as i has a girlfriend enough income is that i wonder what is the thing me want to do for the future seems like i missing something thanks

still finding it very difficult to understand what u are trying to express leh, bro?

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #6 17-12-2010, 01:48 AM

In a figurative sense (感觉官能), tell me what do you see or rather how do you feel?

这两个图像给你的感觉是什么?

What is your 1st thought?

No worries, I am not teasing you.

teebs_darklord · #7 17-12-2010, 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

In a figurative sense (感觉官能), tell me what do you see or rather how do you feel?
这两个图像给你的感觉是什么?

What is your 1st thought?

No worries, I am not teasing you.

Guess I might just join in the fun...

1st pic: no light at the end of the tunnel...

2nd pic: long and loney road leading to nowhere...

alan0338 · #8 17-12-2010, 11:47 AM

i would like to say me see colors ( in 1st pic) then black and white ( in 2nd pic)

so wat does tat prove also huh bro IK? i also interested leh

jasdude · #9 17-12-2010, 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by big wood

bro jasdude sorry maybe i never express in a correct way is not that i divorce i has no money i am not happy i just dont know when i want in life now ,as i has a girlfriend enough income is that i wonder what is the thing me want to do for the future seems like i missing something thanks

Midlife crisis ! lost the meaning of life due to routine . Everything seems done for the sake of doing over and over again . Nothing to look forward right ? the best i can grab out of this statement .

Bro , we are people of the same era ( difference of 1-2 years ). there are people worse off than you , really dying really suffering . you need to be in the company of positive minded friends to re motivate your drive in life .

AmericanExpress · #10 17-12-2010, 01:57 PM

just do your best in life my friend

every dog has it's day

big wood · #11 17-12-2010, 04:05 PM

Thanks for all bro advice,maybe is midlife crisi been doing same thing day in day out think is time to think of something to do,like to wish all bro a merry Christmas and happy new year huat ar

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #12 17-12-2010, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by big wood

Thanks for all bro advice,maybe is midlife crisi been doing same thing day in day out think is time to think of something to do,like to wish all bro a merry Christmas and happy new year huat ar

Post Hattyai syndrome and seasonal affective disorder.
It is common and will soon pass.
Cheer-up

rawr8512 · #13 17-12-2010, 10:21 PM

hey, time to go out and find something fun to do. new hobby, get your mind off stuff.

hoosdathu · #14 18-12-2010, 02:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

1st pic : enjoy the view while u can 及时行乐
2nd pic : still got long way to go, don't give up 路漫漫其修远兮

waiting for our in-house psychologist for analysis...

Andoo · #15 18-12-2010, 03:08 AM

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Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Take and English writing class. The way you write is not going to help your career.

honestly I don't see your command of English is by another way better than him. Also I don't agree to by writing better English will help in anyone career.