Another Well Documented KC

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Son sold her house and elopes with China girl

Best part is, the son kenna the PRC gongtao liao, kenna cheated still end up wif another PRC whore......what new ya!!!

[Wooden_Handle]

May be he think he got better luck this time with another gal.

Anyway if he doesnt spend on gals, he will also spend on betting, create hugh debts thats end up with selling the house.

[colins]

This is called selling his own mother away.

[Wooden_Handle]

Sadly, I must say its all about our education system, training all youngsters to be PAP and never teach them what to be a MAN.

[Panamera]

Originally Posted by wooden_handle

sadly, i must say its all about our education system, training all youngsters to be pap and never teach them what to be a man.

You are right! nowadays youngsters mostly 有教育,但没有父母,家庭,长辈的价值观和重視孝道的觀念

[raibo]

I think somthing is wrong with the teaching system nowadays..

Back in ancient china schools, people studied books like 四书五经 to learn how to 做人..

But now in schools, people study maths, science, geography etc..
I admit this subject can teach us alot of stuff but think they forgot to tell us the basic of 做人的道理..

[aczeta76]

Many people forget about basic piety ...

I also did but then I woke up and realised that if you can give up your family for her, then you will one day give her up for someone else.

Which is why there is always hesistance...

In the story above, I would suspect that the fella is juz seeking escapism and looking for quick and fast fun and enjoyment.

Me... I plan and I plan... sometimes too much..

[FL Lover]

WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.

KNN, if the son is a member of this forum asking for help. I will sure FXXK him upside down. What kind of man is he? Abondoning his parents, got cheated by 1 PRC, Sold the house by deceiving his parents and lastly got hitched again with another PRC!

Hope I dont see him in this forum. Pity the old mum who had painfully raised him up.

We always had this saying "Raised SON for our Retirement!". Not so true nowadays. In fact, many cases I have seen, the son is like a burden nowadays. Better to have cash in hands when u r old and dont trust anyone!!

[mike1304k]

A book does not make a man, neither does his clothes or his looks. It is what is inside. My generation, we were beaten just for being bad. Now if you try to beat your kid you will find yourself slapped with a PPO. In my time, we were taught to respect our elders and my grandparents scared the shit out of me. Nowadays, grand parents help the parents to care for the kids and spoil them at whatever chance they have. In my time, there were so many "spare tires" that even if one died, they just shrugged and asked our parents to produce more.

Parents too also do not instill proper cultures in their children. Primary care giver... a maid... who gets screamed at by the children. If the children do wrong, the parents apologies or even make complaints against whoever dares to complain against their children. In my time, we were scared if we did anything wrong as we would be meeting the maker then.

So the new generation grows up not knowing very much about life. Being very sheltered, spoilt and thinking that the world owes them something. I was brought up to think that we should depend on no one and we should owe no one anything. Now it is "what can they do for me".

So if anyone does not like what I have said, you can zap or flame me... but times have changed and it has changed for the worst. The new generations are not like the old and we can't expect the old. We can't really blame the education system because it is us who perpetuate the system. The child must study hard to go to a good school and get good marks. We will anything to bribe, beg and console them to study. Who is to blame? The system? Or us?

[Panamera]

Originally Posted by FL Lover

We always had this saying "Raised SON for our Retirement!". Not so true nowadays. In fact, many cases I have seen, the son is like a burden nowadays. Better to have cash in hands when u r old and dont trust anyone!!

We must respect our parent and the elderly because they are the people who have promoted the well-being of families, communities and nation. More importantly, our parents, who have reared, educated and cared for us. Thus we owe them comfort and aid throughout their lives. Filial responsibility is the moral obligation for all of us to resepct, assume parent care and to meet the needs of our aged parent, it must hold a major place in our moral values and experience.

We have a saying to these unfilial kids:

When they are young, 我们带他们去幼稚园，when we are old，他们带我们去老人院

[pewpew]

Just a question for those bros with kid or even those kids surfing here...

Do you all still study Moral Education?
a) Giving up seats to elderly? (Ppl acting sleeping when seeing elderly)
b) Tuned down volume when its late? (Ah beng on techno louder whenever their car passby)
c) Alway bring a smile whenever you see people? (stare back at ppl and ask them what number they play?)

If people can't follow these simple rules, how they going to be good to their parent?

[colins]

Better start saving for your own retirement bros. Even if end up in an old folks home also must go good ones with cable tv and mahjong kakis. I personally dun see any problem putting myself into an old folks home when I am old but you have to kill me first before I see my parents into one.

No expectation, no disappointment. Every man for themselves.

[Panamera]

Hopefully, one that got no nite curfew so old folks can go out to cheong and parties till 2-3am... Next day hangover, still got SYT nurses with short skirts to take care of the hangover....

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by Panamera

Hopefully, one that got no nite curfew so old folks can go out to cheong and parties till 2-3am... Next day hangover, still got SYT nurses with short skirts to take care of the hangover....

haha... Can see but cannot touch whoa..

[colins]

Last I remember my grandmums went to bed and got up very early. I suspect it is hereditary. So you better have some 2359 book-in rules if you're in the same camp. But with SYT nurses, man why need to go out? hahaha....