[Vityaz]

Browsed through the postings on "hotwife" here, and yet to come across any from the wives. Am always curious what the "hotwives" think and feel about participating in the lifestyle?

For the informed, and easy to google the term, a "hotwife" refers specifically to a married woman whose husband allows and encourages even to have physical fun outside the marriage, whether husband watches or participates is secondary, and it should be differentiated from swinging or wife swapping when the husband enjoys other women at the same time.

To me, this lifestyle is a surest testimony that sex is basically a power game. A husband sharing his wife is a very significant act of submission. Not all who participated in the lifestyle, especially the husbands, will admit to this. Fewer still will admit to enjoy the "humiliation". But as with most so-called alternate sexual lifestyles, it is exactly such out-of-norm behaviours that are turn-ons.

I have been on both sides of the fence so as to speak - shared my then wife (divorced since, for not-related reasons) previously, and now enjoying a hotwife on a regular basis. Seeking curious or experienced husbands, couples and especially wives to share related thoughts and experiences.