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Originally Posted by thebrokenheart
just sharing my past story.
i met a young viet girl doing b2b by chance. i fell in love with her gradually and i declared my love for her. she said she likes me but i do not really believe her as i know that she is still messaging other guys and having sex with them too, but i still cannot control myself.
i kept asking her to be honest and not play with my feelings, but she always said she do not want me to leave her and she do like me. after every meeting, when messaging her, the reply will be delayed. i wanted to give up but i still love her. i decided i want to help her and send some money to monthly after she goes back.
then suddenly i got chance to bring her out often. i was skeptical and do not believe she love me because i know it is for the money that i will send her after she goes back. ithoughti finally moved her heart. and on one occasion during dinner, i asked to reiterate our relationship and at that point of time she was so serious and i just felt that sincerity and i totally committed myself to her. as i am not super rich and she said her family needs money and may need to come back to work again and she promised that she will only provide b2b and no other service and no fake relationship with other guys.
things just changed after the meeting also. she lied to me that she went out but i realized she went out with other customer for overnight and she denied it. since then our relationship was bad because of my questioning. i told her i should not be her bf but no reply. finally she went back and i sent the money as promised and soon i found out through friend she had a vietnam boyfriend but again she denies it…i still love her and wanted to help her. but i suspect other guys are sending her money too and also she had a boyfriend. i am struggling with myself now if i should continuing sending monthly to her….
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Sharing a summary of my story and some "advices" as well.
Mine is a long story but for readers' sake, will cut out many details sparing you guys the agony.
Met a thai FL early 2024, tio attracted by her beauty. Went back the next day and continued daily for the next 12 days til she go back. Initially capped FJ. 3rd or 4th onwards started to cip (learnt shes on the pills). By then already tio KC gao gao.
Started sending her little sums of money becoz smitten with her, dont like to share so stop her from working while trying to get her a legit job somewhere. Initally small sums and not as frequent. Gradually reasons like repay bank loan, car loans etc and more frequent.
Did went to her hometown, met her parents in between. Was told that for thai girls, to meet the parents meant they are serious.
Gotten a divorce shortly after when my ex discovered it. So now got licence to go all out. Sometime into the 3rd month, started going MIA, non-responsive for hours. It was at a later reluntanct trip to her hometown that i discovered she had a thai bf. Obviously she denied and cried (which man can tahan their loved) and so forgiveness was given. Fast forward 3 months later, we still go our separate ways because i discovered she still with the thai boy, even gotten him gifts with the money i sent him.
Sharing for this conclusion (your opinion may differ):
- Never ever trust them 100%. Whatever they tell you, believe only 10% at most, unless you see it, maybe 50%. But never 100%
- Never start sending them money. It will only increase in frequency and bigger amounts sent.
- Never go soft on them, wear the pants in the relationship. Once you give them leeway, they climb and shit on your head.
- Lastly, bear in mind they work as a FL for a reason. Unless you can comfortably settle their issues, then you have to live with them working in that line. For obvious reasons no men whos really in love wants them to continue in that line. But that decision will take you down the endless bottomless hole. So climb out of it if you still can.
Sad but true, my only suggestion to you is to end it early, before more heartache and deeper holes in the wallet are caused.