[derrickboy]

Originally Posted by Kopiosteve

My personal take is that there are two overnight scenarios.

Scenario 1 (I do this)
When I overnight with a ML or FL, both of us should already have strong chemistry or sort of casual "relationship" going. So I know SHE ALSO WANTS me to stay too. This way there are less, or no, expectations or demands. Just 2 people who wants to enjoy some intimate time together, some romantic cuddling and then sleep. Make no mistake, THERE WILL BE SLEEP. Because she will be tired from a day of working, and she will be working the next day too. And my presence must not interfere with her rest. This arrangement for me usually means no money is spoken of, though I will leave something more in the morning.

Scenario 2 (I completely avoid this)
Paying a high overnight rate to fulfil your own fantasy of sleeping with a ML you like. This for me is setting up for disappointment - especially if the ML is still starting work the next morning. Because this means the ML is only greedy for money, not delivering quality service. Besides, greedy people aren't really nice people. Plus, since you paid a high price, you'd be raising expectations and demands. The deed may be done, but like other bros mentioned she'll be doing her chores, talking to her friends, and she will sleep - without cuddling. Leaving you lying in the darkness, eyes wide open wondering what silly decision you made.

Quite the same, maybe I too cheapskate to go for scenario 2. Scenario 1 ML is the super regular one, knowing she'd like to go out for dinner and after that go back to her place... still pay her the normal 1-2hours afterwards. As mentioned won't stay overnight but maybe sleep/rest a while then go back. Very long don't have such luck liao. Haiz.