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Originally Posted by BFOMF5
Don't know if I bring up nono's name they will give me special discount or not.  |
If they ever offer a discount under my name, then it would be worrying. A discount from my name (or anyone else's) likely means others would have to pay more to "cover" the discount given to me. Hence when I go to Marine Live Sea food the last few times, i refuse to mention I know which "names" or whoever (even when I was advise to,so I can pay lesser); and i even forbid friends who are regular to any places to pin-pointed "me" as a special guest.
Reason is simple,i wish to see the Real Thing,the true real pricing,the real taste of the food,its real service and all that. I don't like to see becos I am kind of a regular there,they try to give me a certain deal therefore giving me an artificial price, better quality cooking and/or special treatment service/s. I prefer to see things in their REAL form and in its true color.
I believe i have mention about the same thing in one of my summary...hehehe...
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Originally Posted by Nulgath
I notice u often stand in another person's angle of view to look at things & from this part,i'm kind of sure u will also be looking from yr girl's view,the okt's view,the forumer's view etc.
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换个立场想 in English ,it means "put oneself in other's position to think".
In order to understand the problem in this thread (regarding batam), i have to 1st be in this thread to face the problem.
In order to understand the problem in Batam faced by newbie (even for some oldbies), i have to 1st face their problem/s. It is totally impossible for me to face ALL the problems by newbies (or anyone) alone,so I put myself in their position at most time, to try to understand their thoughts, their fear, their obstacles, their basic fundamental characteristic etc and even to the extend of their physical trip.
From thereon, i can seek some solution/s or find better ways to resolve an issue faced.
It benefits me too,becos I was able to absorb other bros experience easily by just reading,hehehe...
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Originally Posted by Nulgath
The moment u took out yr own fixed definition of right & wrong when u are looking thru their viewpoints it'll gives u a much clearer picture,from thereon u then do wonders.
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The moment there is no right and wrong,the moment when i don't judge base on my own characteristic, I am able to accept things better and to see things in a much clearer way from many angles. And I am able to stay BETTER focus and IGNORE the other distractions (bickering or would-be bickering included), hehehe...i also encourage my friends to do that too. (reflecting similar frequency)
I stayed on the topic of the thread title and get a bird's eye view of a situation.
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Originally Posted by Nulgath
Something i observed in yr past postings. 
Took me a while to read (& understand).
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I agree with the statement on the photo posted by you. Once I am able to stand from the other party position to consider things,i will be able to analyze, to see clearly if the shared information is deem to be constructive or non-constructive. So regardless if you are the 'good guy' or the 'not-so-good guy', i do try to look at things from their viewpoint.
I don't go to the internet just to win over nothing at the end of the day. Only constructive sharing of info is useful to me. I learn in this thread and i still do.
The best part is,i need not have to go around spamming non-informative posts to instigate a fight or start fanning for an argument/quarrel to seek attention.
My contribution speaks for myself (if i am credible enough). Otherwise there wont be so many readers reading my posts,right? Hehehe...