Supposed there aren't gonna be any guys insensitive enough to literally dash for the nearest exit upon meeting his date, supposed it is a blind date for that matter.
So I was just saying, if you got what I mean.
Don't get too serious, ya?
Happy dating!
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Originally Posted by autumnbreeze7
If you do read carefully, not everything listed in my list makes a 'criterion', some points are just descriptions of how I would like the arrangement to be (e.g. no sex and basic things like being treated with respect, empathy and honest, which I know some guys lack).
Also, most of the criteria isn't even demanding, did I say things like I'm only looking for someone who is good-looking and would be able to drive me around or pay for my expenses? In fact, I even stated I'm ok with someone thin or pudgy, just not skinny or plump. I'm just listing a few preferences I have for age, looks and disposition cos I'm not just looking for a piece of meat to fuck like many of the guys here, I'm looking for someone who's able to converse, is willing to hang out and I'll be attracted enough to Wanna get kinda physically intimate with.
If you guys think I have too many criteria and I'm being demanding then you guys probably don't know the meaning of the word 'criteria' or probably have really low standards or it could the combustion of the two.
And I know I'm not a head turner and my forthcoming-ness and non-no sense attitude may not be every guy's cup of tea but I've enough confidence in myself that no or few guys would wanna make a quick dash for the exit when they see me.
And for those whom I've shortlisted and contacted, I have been telling all of them the first meetup will be for both parties to assess if they are sufficiently attracted to the other party physically and mentally to wanna proceed with the arrangement. I'm totally comfortable with turning down guys and guys turning me down. So please 😒 Stop insinuating that I think too highly of myself and am being demanding.
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