Hi brothers and sisters,
few months back, my gf due to being afraid she will be pregnant after we had sex even if we use condom, we have come to a conclusion to not have sex only after we're married.
Just like to ask how fellow brothers and sisters keep the flames alive w/o sex. I have been masturbating a lot and when my gf and I are into foreplay, I do not feel anything or I will be soft very quickly.
Sigh. I do not wish to cheat behind her back and find sex buddy but sometimes just kept thinking about it.