Want to stop but can't ...help!
 

I'm <30 yrs old and been roaming geylang for quite some time. Wanted to stop going but the urge is too strong. I fear that if this continue, i might be contracted with HIV though i always put on protection on every action. Any bros had the same thinking of me? Trying to stop but unable to do so? Please share your experiences on such issue...:confused:

Re: Want to stop but can't ...help!
 

TS, time to get a wife :D

Re: Want to stop but can't ...help!
 

Masturbate. Every time you want to go, just turn on some porn and masturbate till you cum. Not the best solution, but will help in the short term.

I'm not as frequent as you, but sometimes have to control myself from visiting FLs too. Having a savings plan and a budget helps me control frequency.

For long term help, check this out (no, I have not tried):
Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous http://www.sg-slaa.com/ "S.L.A.A. Singapore welcomes anyone that wishes to receive help from a pattern of sex and love addiction. Special care and protection of the anonymity of members is a fundamental principle of S.L.A.A..
The only requirement for anyone who wishes to join S.L.A.A. is a desire to stop living out a pattern of sex and love addition."

Re: Want to stop but can't ...help!
 

we are tune this way.

always need to unload our soldiers.:D

Re: Want to stop but can't ...help!
 

Nice sharing :)

Re: Want to stop but can't ...help!
 

Buy a real doll sex toy, can solve your problem

Re: Want to stop but can't ...help!
 

no $ no honey liao... put your $ to better use la

Re: Want to stop but can't ...help!
 

Bro,

Geylang FL or non FL? if you are talking about legal ones then less chance as they are screen monthly or even weekly for STD. Much more safer than those FL. Always wear helmet for protection.

Media always associate HIV and STD with Geylang but actually it should be those FL and "one night stands" that people have to be careful.

Re: Want to stop but can't ...help!
 

One hand PCC, the other hand hold a $50 note in front, after PCC put the $50 in a piggy bank. At the end of the year, it is like kena 4D :D

Re: Want to stop but can't ...help!
 

Like this also can ah? :)

Re: Want to stop but can't ...help!
 

How frequent do you go Geylang then? Every few days or every few weeks? Agree with most bro that its those FL and ONS and even like horny maids who are more risky. No offences to other bros out there as i myself also go for FL once every while and had a few ONS years back. Hasnt got the chance to try up any maids but maybe next time who knows.

In my opinion, so long you only raw with those you totally trust (wife/gf/fb), then your risk of std is not that high.

Re: Want to stop but can't ...help!
 

Hahaha! Good idea for $$$, but picture of former President Yusof bin Ishak might not be conducive for PCC.

Re: Want to stop but can't ...help!
 

It does not work. Especially if the wife is frigid or just simply does not want sex often enough.

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I just fear that sometime condom might not be 100% safe too. There is always an exception case :(

Most worrying part is that if i had a wife and later i feel that her bj not enough skills, i might return to geylang again. :confused:

Re: Want to stop but can't ...help!
 

Actually i find that i am on the opposite as you. eversince i have entered my late 20s, i find my sex drive diminishing to manageable levels now

the early 20s and army time was the worse and i find it hard to cope, even possibly embarassed by my high drive