Working Girls - Who They Really Are
 

1.0 Introduction

A wise man once said: “Surely, God created man before woman. But then you always make a rough draft before the final masterpiece.” Are women really the perfected masterpiece of mankind? Are men stupidly hypnotized by the beauty of women?

Isn’t it amazing to see how someone struggles to give a legless beggar one insignificant dollar but would gladly throw thousands of dollars on flower garlands for an attractive girl parading herself on a flower joint stage? Isn’t it unexplainable to see how an individual would carefully choose his SingTel mobile phone bill package that amounts to a maximum of S$150 a month compared to choosing a girl in a KTV joint that could easily cost S$150 for a 4-hour sexless session? Isn’t it baffling to see how your rich “brother” would drag his feet to lend you S$3000 but could easily spend S$5000 a night on drinks and exclusive escorts?

How about 西施(Xi Shi) ? The one woman who was the sole reason for Country Wu and Country Yue to go into war during the old China era in 496 BC (special thanks to David for this information). It seems like what Julius Henry Groucho Marx (1890 to 1977), an American comedian and television star once said was very true: “Men does not control his own fate. The women in his life do that for him.“ What is so powerful about these women? Why could they so easily let our friends around us spend top dollars on them? Let us explore further.

2.0 Women’s Secret Weapon

2 days ago, a KTV girl I brought for an overnight session told me “A man tends to use his dick to think and not his brains.” Women jolly well know for the fact that we men are easily moved when they cry, we could make miracles when they sweet talk us and on the most powerful level, we could mindlessly give out money when they give us hope that they might spread their legs for us.

I used to date a Vietnamese girl and I am delighted to hear that she hasn’t spread her legs for anyone in exchange for money before – I took time to research on her and found out that what she said was most likely true. During our relationship I asked her why was she so “conservative” and she said: “I am not conservative, those who spread their legs easily for money got no brains. If I don’t go hotel with customer, he will come back and see me again and again, if I go with him one time, tomorrow he will not come back to the KTV and find me anymore – I earn more money this way”.

We need to know that a smart girl knows how to press our buttons well, but then again, isn’t that what we are craving for?

"As usual, there is a great woman behind every idiot."
- John Lennon (foundering member of the rock band, The Beatles)

3.0 The Psychology of a Working Girl

What is there to think further? We could nicely sum up this section with one word – money. These girls work because they want money. I first interviewed a prostitute in Chang An when I was given an opportunity by my boss to experience the one dragon service, at that time I was an innocent little boy and I did not want to do "bad” things so I ended up talking with her for 2 hours, I asked questions like:

Me:“Who was your oldest client?”
Working Girl: “70 year old man.”

Me: “Do you actually feel sexually aroused when servicing your clients?”
Working Girl: “Sometimes, depending on feeling but for older clients, no.”

Me: “Do you like your job?”
Working Girl: “No.”

Me: “Why then choose this job?”
Working Girl: “If your mother is dying and she requires operation would you not do anything to save her life? She is your mother.”
Me: <<speechless>>

Most working girls sell themselves because they need to save their family, some wants to fulfil their dream of opening a fashion shop, some wants to work because they have nothing to do at home and etc. Many could argue that there will be working girls who are truly out there looking for love and I could never agree more, these girls are out there looking for true love but only if your wallet or bank account has got enough weight for them to love you with their entire life and pussy.

4.0 Bonk Wisely

I know many of us come from very difficult family backgrounds - we might be mistreated or there was a lack of love showered upon us when we were younger. The result of this is to look for love outside of your biological family - what happens if you are not handsome enough to attract girls naturally? You turn to the working girls for attention and when they tell you what you want to hear, you break your piggy bank and empty it into the girl's mouth so willingly like your hard earned money is worth nothing more than used toilet paper.

We need to keep in a golden rule in mind - working girls are for use, fuck and forget. If you do not fuck and forget, you will be fucked, robbed and forgotten. A very important man once said:

"Whores are for fucking not loving. Just fuck them and be done with it."
- Sammy Boy Forum, The Boss

I tell my friends all the time that we guys are always the ones who lose out, we use our entire beings to make money and all girls do is just spread their legs - we pay them, do all the physical work to let them feel good and then repeat this sequence again and again. Remember, the girls always know how to get their way.

“Sex is a short cut to everything.”
-Anne Cumming

It doesn't matter if you are ugly, short, fat, disfigured, financially challenged and uneducated. You will find your love someday, it will take time and it will take effort, I'm sure this path is much better than you giving money freely to people who would constantly lie to you.

Life is short, we play to the best of our abilities but we need to do this wisely.

With pleasure,
Notary

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well said, bro!

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Well written. I approve !

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Good piece! And don't mind if I add that they are also humans. Respect them as we would respect any humans. Some of them are in this trade with choice, some are not. Regardless they are as human as we are.

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Very true.

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I believe in every trade.. There are good and bad people..even working ladies

I have seen ladies working for sole purpose of solving a short term problem...and some who work only for material lifestyle...

My perception of these ladies changed when I fell in love with one of them..

I can tell you not all of these gals enjoy sex with customer..most of them only play act to make customer return..

After knowing her...when I visit prostitutes or ktv... It no longer excites me when a gal tells me sweet nothing..because I know 99% is not true..

When you have sex with a working lady knowing they truly love you is a world of difference..

I just want to tell all to please respect such gals..there are good people... They are not all gold diggers.. Yes they're sex workers..but not all gals are kinky... Don't visit them and practise all your porno fantasy if the gal is not up for it..

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very well said......

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Dear bro becks,


Firstly, congratulations on finding your one true love albeit from the KTV scene. I too have fallen in love with a few KTV babes before and I can agree with you that some do carry a good heart. Although the statistics were out of 7 years of chionging in the KTV arena, i fell in love with only 2 good girls and out of the 2 girls, 1 broke up with me in 4 months and the other honestly needed money from me time and time again due to family issues.

However, I also need to say that a KTV girl who does not have money in her heart as a goal and will pour you with true endless love is highly rare. It is almost like striking the top 3 prizes in 4D.

Just don't want to give the brothers here false hope because chasing after this false hope could mean losing their money unnecessarily and family painfully.


With pleasure,
Notary

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Totally agree , just fuck and go. They are here for money nothing more than that. If you start to have feelings for them , you are trying to dig your own grave.
Always remember, you are not the first or the last to fuck her neither she is the first or the last to be fuck by you. Before you pity her , you have to start pity yourself.

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Notary, you have said it very well and well explained. This thread should be made a permanent sticky.

Married or not, my signature would be relevant and valid in almost every man's life; "Pussies are rarely free. They will eventually cost or trouble you."

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Very true. I have fallen into the holes before. Lost my family....... Wife divorce with me son hates me. And what happen to all the "girls" I spent my nights and money on? Gone with the wind. Of cuz not all girls are bad girls..... But moral of the story is don allow your emotions or xiaodidi to control you :D

Now no wife no gf, bobian got to go prostituing lo.... But am a clever monger now fuck and forget :p

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Forgive me of not writting well. Past ten years sees an increase in FTs and PR in this country. The top man just allows whether top notch below average, A Star scholars with ltd English too. The % has surplas his top mentors. But did he made a mistake? I dont think so.

On its 50 birthday, we saw the ads " Victoria and Mei Ling". International friendships mine foot! A show of hand how many brothers got piss off by WG. I beg all hands above. Then he threw this group into the vast ocean where locals sharks in the matter will attack them. They are dumb because they believe he said this is the place where this group of people could rise families. Plus locals in red dot is easy to bully.

He also remind us army and, home team will hit FTs and PR if they put up riot. The 5 shows all locals no bullshits. Mine friends WG are also FTs who believe this is the place where she could settle down. $ is good no bones about it but it is never grow on trees.

Still I do not seen the connection of International Policy in winning.

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Totally agree with the first post. :)

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Agree bro. WLs are focused on earning quick money, for their own reasons. Despite their young age, these WLs are far superior in experience and kc skill than their older clients. Falling in love with them is a highly risky and costly venture.

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Totally agree.

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Well written and commented by all bros here.

May I generalise by listing working ladies into 2 broad categories -

1) Focused

2) Not focused

For 1. Assuming your skills are good and you managed to kc them. They will love you. But in the end they still want your money.

For 2. Assuming your skills are good again, then you need to either have lots of money to bring her out of the working place (and assume she hasn't fucked anyone before and you have to marry her). Otherwise she become 1 given enough time.

Notice the common denominator for 1 and 2, you need to have money.

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Bro Notary,

I would really like to thank you for your insightful post. If cheongsters can learn from what you have posted, they will really save themselves a ton of money and heartache. Even more so if they already have families and children.

That fucker Sam Leong (sammyboyfor) really hit me in the face that day. Said I was "obviously an insecure person".

But then, he said it 100% correct. Why i fall in love with FLs and escorts? Why did I pursue a relationship with them when I knew how much it would cost me emotionally, mentally, financially, and even socially?

i think if each of us cheongsters can find that sense of security and confidence, we won't need to pander to the emotional side at the expense of everything we worked hard to achieve in life. We can fuck and forget. Treat whores like whores and nothing more.

Boss Sam is right. Doesn't matter if she is a Geylang broad, FL, or social escort. She is a whore. That's something we cheongsters must never forget.

Feelings, emotions, lust, sexual desire must be placed in their proper compartments. A pretty 18 year old FL can make you feel so shiok until you think nothing else in the world matters, but if you lose your mind over her, you will end up losing your money, your emotional well-being, your social life, your productive life, etc.

Is it worth it?

It doesn't matter if you want to have dinner dates with your escorts, or if you want to keep a sugar baby from time to time. As long as you have 100% control if each encounter. As long as you compartmentalize them properly and don't let them spill into your real life -- your real life being your family, your work, your career, and your social and emotional well-being.

That's the lesson I learnt the hard way.

After 2 decades of fucking whores, having dinner dates and keeping sugarbabes.

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In these day and age, whether she is a WL or not, 99% of woman wants money from you.

The more money you have, the more she will "love and respect" you.

Human beings are not meant to be monogamous. Even "true love" have a "fixed term". Just enjoy while it last.

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Well said, and I agree.

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I had an old friend who married a Thai WL, thats back into the 90s we were shocked when we learn about it. He met her during one of his Thai sex tour, some how they hit it off. What follows all true no bullshits.

He married her in this country, she got PR thats a past era where ICA could not access FT background I think. They rise a family of 3 childrens, then mine friend started to screw around, of course past 10 years. There could only be PRC girls in this country.

Now, I had never ask him whether his wife receive her pink IC. This is the ultimate important because it shown a weakness of the system. He divource in 2013 and, she MIA and mine friend believe she is still living in this city. He dont think she return to her home town. Because she is earning a decent living and she did not quit her job.

The bottom line mine brothers. Married cant fail.

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Excellent thread by ts ..

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Yeah Bro Yakuza,

Was trying to put a link to a "Search All Threads Started by Notary" apparently, the URL changes from time to time. Need to think of something else.

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How are all the bros doing lately?

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Good to see you back... It's been while

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Hi bro larue,


I'm not really back, just dropping by to see how are things evolving here.

I hope you are dealing well with your divorce issues, wish you luck bro.